I asked my bf but I think ,this might have ended our relationship he been gone a week from me and i feel its the end of us to much damaged at this point

His response was ''What do you think"? I told him I don't know, so if he could tell me then I can work on them. Got no response. He just went back to being cold&quiet. What do I do next. I'm doing this o'r again & he knows it but jst doesn't care.

i wasnt gonna tell him i was doing this challenge. but with today i had tok. i called him and he was like what is that. and then i asked him the question. he said.. " oh...im...i gotta get off here." and thats it. seriously what do i do??

question? if hes already told me what he doesnt like do i still ask him again? is that not starting a fight if i keep asking the same questions?

1st is how you could never feel like you could trust me anything I say or was doing was a lie. 2nd, I made you feel like you were never what I truly wanted. 3rd I was hardly ever ez to be around. I always seem pissed

I whatsapped her three weeks ago (she moved out, stay with her parents) Still no reply. Should I email her a list of things I came to know that irritate her, and ask her to pick 3 or add her own?

We are not living in the same house so once again I cannot complete the dare for day 5.Will this influence the end result badly?

We are not living in te same house anymore, so once again I could not do day 5 either😭 will this influence the end result?

I didn't have to ask. I just noted when he was irritable and what he reacted to. Counted around 5 things today that got him irritated.

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Does it count if you asked and they don't bother to reply??

I am happy that although I knew it I did ask her so that I will learn to listen to constructive feedback even it will hurt feelings for in that way I will grow as a Man.

I hug her and gave her my full attention and affection. I did ask this question and she mentions that I knew it.

I asked my husband 3 things and he told me. He then asked me to list 3 of my own for him. I wasn't expecting that. I'm trying to update the app's diary for today and it isn't working...

today was bad she keeps on telling me to leaf her alone and leaf her i have asked the question and the replay i hot is i dont have to justify my self toe you.... i know i was a bad husband but i do want to change for the better

i asked my wife. she told me the 3. the last killed me, because i knew it would be on the list. ive been feeling the pain from all this. and learning what ive done wrong.

i cant ask my husband. he suffers with depression and a condition called retro active jealousy. so he cant answer

i didn't even need to ask today. She had an outburst and told me what irrtates her about me all on her own.

I asked him and replied Stop asking these things again, you knew about our relationship has big difference and more fights. He said he cannot go back to our relation. Time to move on and respect my decision.

we had a talk and expressed the things that bother us. my issue is he never defends me when others say or do something wrong. like his dad calling me names and showing disrespect. how do i get him to understand how it makes me feel without a fight?

i lied to my husband about past relationships. it was the lies that hurt him. The lies that broke his trust in me. Thats why he hates me now and cant forgive me.

I asked him to tell me 3 things and he didn't want to. He did tell me every single thing i have done wrong. i thanked him for his brutal honesty because i did those things and have admitted to my faults .

Today went great we communicated 2 different things to each other and promise to do better in those areas.

I'm so thankful he asked and replied! First steps to communication & accountability.

what is so wrong with a man needs to be shown love just as much as a woman

i guess its to much to ask for them to show love im trying everything thing i can but im not good enough for her

my wife wanna go out over night without me. she wanna hide things from me, hide phone calls, messages at night with someone. and wanna do what she wanna do without even speaking with me about.

When doing the Love Dare on someone else without their knowledge, how do you handle it when they don't respond to a direct question day? My SO is Autistic and isnt answering me on day 5.

My husband said im a pathlogical liar, gasligthing and play the victim. Its how he feels about me but i just think he no longer loves me but im still going to make it work.

When I ask my husband the three things he said pathological liar, gasligthing, and playing the victim. I did not reach because i know that its his perception.

Anyone here looking for help with an attachment to pornography?

this one is gonna be difficult to stomach.

Day 5 : But my question is ; What if he has already told me EVERYTHING that I do that irritates or offends him? It's been so hard to hear, and now I need to ask again? :-/ I already feel defeated and deflated...

so last night he told me he feels like he's fake with me and that I need to start figuring out how things are gonna go during the divorce. I don't want to lose my marriage but have I already lost it ?

today is extremely difficult , he acts as if I am is roommate or someone he engages with sexually or only when it's convenient for him . which in return makes me feel so unwanted in every way possible. I want to give up !

Satan is on it again!! My Wife is under attack and She is entertaining the devil.

this is the one that always sets me off course & i stop the dare- 3 times.Not conducive to the goal His reply: i was sure whether to say the truth and fall into that trap or lie so i decided not to answer!" Super hurtful...

this is the one that always sets me off course & i stop the dare- 3 times.Not helpful. His reply: i was sure whether to say the truth and fall into that trap or lie so i decided not to answer!" Super hurtful...

any one have info on how to boost your self esteem and confidence as a man?

just sent day 5 the three things i do. i am pretty much sure i know them already but i know when she replys it will confirm it. i was scared to do this.

I texted him around 12pm & he read the message. Around 5:30 he said its been a busy day & he will need to think about it & get back to me. I know last night he texted a girl that he was having an emotional affair w/earlier this year. -L

So day #5 I asked my man what are three things i do that frustrates him about me. He only came up with one answer, my depression.

I didn't do as well as I wanted to today. I felt attacked and commented on it.

This doesn't feel right or safe for Day 5. I understand the purpose but I'm not doing this now. Pretty sure I can write them down from our last conflict. Maybe I'll skip and come back.

Ask. Takes courage to just listen and not defend yourself, but it's worth it. Did this with my wife last night.

I asked him this question and he asked for time to think about it. still hasn't said anything yet...

I askedy husband this question twice. He refused to answer and said there was nothing although I know he just didnt want to say. How can I make improvements if I do not know what irritates him?

my husband is talking to another woman. it kills me but i know God can change his heart. it hurts i need prayers for patient and strength please

I need prayers I have a feeling my partner is done with me I was mentally sick and said I wanted to break up and said harsh words I pray to God he forgives me right now he won't even talk to me

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It's been a week and I still can't do #5. He doesn't have time to talk with me. :(

Instead of apologizing for nit mentioning his plans for the day he just said okay when i said he could have just made mention. I feel disrespected and like i don't matter to him by not getting an apology. Like his day well planned out in secret.

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I haven't done this one, my SO is negative when it comes to me, I'd get a very negative response. There's a communication barrier, if speak it turns into an argument, everything i say seem negative to him and there's emotional detachment.

she is in a good mood and I feel like asking her to write down 3 things that irritate me will take us back. Should I skip this part or just go ahead and ask her anyway?

I asked him the 3 things that irritated him,but he said can't think of any right now and if he had said anything on an argument was probably him just talking 💩. I need help and prayers.

so i asked my husband 3 things that cause him to be uncomforatable or irritated with me and he said "nothing, youre perfect 😍" which is great.. if it were true (according to our arguments its not) so do i pry or leave it?

the fact my anger is too much sometimes, that i dont help as much around the house, and that when im mad i take it out on her and the kids. i agree for the most part but working on my anger

How do I ask these questions if we have no communication at all?

my wife told me shes has feelings for somone else she wants a divorce. today she tells me she went to her moms, but i found out where the other guy lives n her car is with him.. GOD held me back from going to jail tonight.

2nd day of Day 5: He still hasn't given me 3 things I do that irritate him. He says, "No one's perfect. We work together to help each other." I guess I'm just beginning to realize what a good man he is. Suddenly, I feel humbled and ashamed.

I am married for 16 years with 4 little kids. My wife wants space to find herself and be happy. She suggested that we seperate for a while. I dont want to do that. There is only a 10% rate of people getting back together. I love her.

what can I do if the woman I love with all my heart, has blocked me from any way of contacting her. We do not live together anymore. is this challenge still possible?

5: he didnt answer bc he didnt want to end our day on a potentially sour note. I'll ask again and soften the approach of my request. leaving the door open to tell me how i can love him better is still progress

My wife does not want to give me three things that I make her amgry with or irritate her. saying that she does not want to start an argument. Ill just make them myself for now. This is probably one of the 3 things.

He still haven't gotten more of his stuff. Day 5 and he continues to want to leave and go on his way. I tried to call but no answer. I will continue to fight for us in the power of prayerS for it is His thy will be done!!

Today has been hard. I'm am on day fine and have been struggling. today our can broke down and the situation has been putting stress on our relationship.

my wife says I lost her trust. I got rid of all social media. I only message coworkers and my children. how can I gain her trust back without her feeling like I'm checking in all the time?

we do this all the time. but today i took a step back and didnt demand so much attention and told him i know he needs his time and to play his game to get lost. his gaming is his release. the look on his face said more than enough

hey all i pray for peace in all your hearts. question, My wife and I live in seperate homes. She doesnt open up to me. i fear her heart is closed to me. how would I complete this days challenge, what do you all suggest?

what is this verse trying to say i dont fully understand.

questioning his decisions making assumptions about him/those decisions overt support for what he wants to do at least he answered.

She loves scents and oils, so I went to Bed Bath and Beyond to get her some lotion, shower gel, pillow mist,and even massage oil. she really appreciated it. The sincere smile on her face meant everything. This was a thoughtful dare.

she said I don't listen I hear what I want to hear. I don't Think sometimes and she has to talk to me like a kid don't do this or that

I've been very hesitant about this one....my husband gets very defensive over everything and takes everytjing as a personal attack...

well this one was probably the most disheartening so far. This morning she said it was too early to think that much. then this evening she said I'm not ready to deal with all of that right now.

It's been 2 days since I asked... No answer no response.. Don't know what to make of it. I have my own ideas of what he might say but I want to hear it from him.

I am seeing my husband trying but he is still putting her first and he said that leaving her is wrong. I want to make my marriage work so bad, everything hurts. His response to the dear are my reactions base on his actions towards me.

Today was tough. It was very hard not to respond in anger to his comments, but I did, thankfully...

I awoke to this challenge and kindly and respectfully asked. I have not yet received a response. I do hope I get and answer be it painful or a not. Either way I will work this a gracefully as I can.

Today went well!!

she did and I understand. but she has took a big step and came home. I was so excited and blessed. with God, prayers, faith hope and love.

Morning. I really need private assistance. Please help me

I did this today and the answers were not what I expected.

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I asked my husband and he didn't answer. I waited a few min and rephrased. All he would say was he didn't want to think about it. After 9 yrs, he doesn't want this anymore. I pray daily that God will bring him back to me.

Sending my wife my nightly email, we're separated. I'm not expecting this to go over well. Every step so far has seem to blow up and triggered her. Do these steps every make things worse? Feels like it is. For clarification, I was unfaithful to her.

I'm really scared to do this. My S.O. is verbally and emotionally abusive. He lashes out and berates me all the time over nothing. Not sure how to proceed.

why does this have to be so hard. my wife's response to this one was only one thing and that's the fact that I won't except that she is done and doesn't want me to be her husband anymore. any advice is appreciated

Waiting for my husband to get home from work so I can do my dare but I pray to God that he is at work and not with the other woman. It breaks my heart. My kids are starting to notice something is wrong and it makes me so sad.

Waiting for my husband to get home from work so I can do my date but I pray to God that he is at work and not with the other woman. It breaks my heart. my kids are starting to notice something is wrong and it makes me sad.

I did not know what God has planned for my life. I will continue to trust Him all the days of my life. I can only use this as a devotional now but there will be victory in sacrifice. love you God

my spouse said my memory, attitude, and my slick remarks that drives him crazy I told him that's your perspective and opinion and didn't get mad at all and without attacking him.

my spouse said my memory, attitude, and my slick remarks. I told him that's your perspective and opinion and didn't get mad at all.

see wat happens tomorrow for this one will update

self confidence I rush into things road rage

well yesterday was a fail 😩 praying today is better

ohhh day 5.... my husband makes it a point to DAILY remind me what drives him crazy, & yes, it does irritate me and I somehow always make excuses. I ask "why haven't I changed these things yet? I pray and try!" but nothing changes 😩

i can already see that this one is gonna get somebody's feelin box hurt 🙄

Was planning on doing Day 5 but my emotions last night caused a tense talk that has me feeling like I've caused so much grief that I may never succeed in reconciling to where we once were.

Finished Day3. Day4 tomorrow, but this Day5 on Thurs will be hard. I already know what's caused our marriage to be on the rocks now and I'mworking on it. Not sure how it'll go when I ask this question. She may not answer or there may be more tension.

Day 5 no response at all being ignored

Anyone can "hear" what is being said but the key us to "listen". Yes it may hurt, it make you mad, but it is a hurdle one must get past to move ahead. Key is communication.

I couldnt complete this, he avoids me in the house.. when I walk in2 a room his in he leaves.. or he walks into my room to smoke but doesnt say a word he totally ignores me do I start from day 1 again?

so tonight was tough, and a tough pill to swallow. she said 1.disrespect , 2 dismissive to her parenting,3. lieing"hideing things. I said talk down too/ yelling,2.demanding change but won't give repeat for me to work on, 3. lieing"hiding things"

I did this today and still no answer. not even as much as looked at the message. still no phone calls

commenting on her memory, need for acknowledgement, saying umm..

he told me and I didnt attack him. pray for me... my jealousy can be out of control. weve been together 15 years not all easy, we are still healing. great lesson!

my day 5 is going to be on Father's day not sure I want to hear this on my day

Don't expect to get an answer but I asked and of course since he was mowing lawns all day I got the "I'm tired". We did exchange a few words a couple days ago so bruises are still there but hopefully we can get through this.

This dare is buy far the hardest one I've had to do. She asked me why. I responded with So I can have a better understanding of what I need to work on in me. All I got after that's was stop.

She didn't respond at all, I pray she starts talking to me.

He gave me 1. me thinking I know what he is thinking, 2. overfilling his dinner plate, 3. giving him the remote when he sits to watch TV with me. Mine were 1. The lack of communication, 2. The secrets, 3. Acting like nothing happened

I asked what 3 things irritated him about me and he was gentle, but he was honest when he listed them. Then he surprised me by asking me what 3 things irritated me about him. I took that as something positive.

I texted him this question and he is yet to respond. I hope he does. he typically shies away from such questions. I feel he is kind of accepting me the way I am, but I really want to know so I can grow. until then today's dare would be incompleted.

The problem is he is abusive and mean and blames me fuf everything.

He actually asked what the dare was today on his own. He took the initiative to want to talk about the dare first which was extremely surprising because I was scared he would think this when thing is stupid.

the 3 things that she said all had to do with my mouth or my attitude. Praying for help with these.

My husband first said no way. then asked why I wanted to know. then ended with only if you tell me 3.

To be honest my wife has already divorced me. the response I received really hurt. she wasn't wrong though. hopefully when people say it's never to late they are right. I suppose worst case scenario it's never too late to work on myself.

Took almost a week to get a response. I thought they would be horrible but it's all things I can manage. just bad habits praying for the best

he had a list of things but all of them I was aware of. but now hearing him say them I felt a little embarrassed but also empowered to change those things

Asked her but she said she accepted all my flaws because its what makes me, myself.

so I started today as asking he didnt want to talk,but be with friends so I told him things I would like to change to better us and he got upset.so I'll try again later in the day

Really nervous about this dare for today. I don't even know how to go about asking my husband this because we barely talk and it's seems when we do it turns into and argument. I'm afraid I'm going to break down and cry.

Really nervous about doing this dare. Don't know what to expect.

I asked him and he wouldn't say so I just wrote done some stuff that ik that he's said before

he asked me to stop talking to my male friend so much, to work on how headstrong I am in serious talks, and to fold the laundry rather than leave it in the hamper or dryer

i just feel like there's nothing I do will make him happy

what are you suppose to do when ur spouse says u do nothing like clean,mop,take care of the yard, don't do laundry or nothing.

im gonna try this today we'll see how it goes

ok first and foremost....I had to build up the nerve to even ask this. I asked him and he did not want to talk about it. so we moved on. I did not get upset or become emotional.

i will try this one today, hopefully my wife doesn't shut me out like she usually does. Communication is the most important thing we have lost in these 10 years of marriage

this day was ok I guess. I suppose I can't complain to much.

I don't know how much longer I can give everything to him when he doesn't even notice me.

He took one bite from the edge then set the plate aside for over an hour while he played his phone game and just ignored it. I have been putting in all this effort day after day, month after month, year after year.

I cooked him a special breakfast with foods that I can't eat. Pancakes with sweet fried plantains, bananas and mangos with homemade butter caramel cinnamon syrup.

I was doing fine on this one. But I fell apart and yelled and cried about something else.

this one is very tough

I just don't know what to do or how to over come this one it's a tough one.

I'm still tuck on this one cause everytime I try to discuss things like this ith my fiance it turn out to be an argument

My husband just says that I should already know. I think he has found someone else at work where he spend 13-15 hours days. If he wont actually talk to me then what am I supposed to do?

this was surprisingly easy to digest, we are recovering from my infidelity so when I asked him this question I really did this while listening intently without commenting. When our partners feel they are heard they communicate better.

It went well at first coz he also asked me to tell him 3 things but it ended with him expressing his regret over marrying me. It hurts soo bad to hear that given another chance he would have been single 😭. It's rough yal

This was a hard thing for me to do. I'm a very prideful man, and asking was humbling. My wife thought I was kidding, and I had to convince her I truly wanted to know. I'm still waiting for her response.

I got two out of three. the hubby just wants to brush stuff under the rug like his past life. maybe I'm fighting an uphill battle but I must forge ahead.

Today i asked my wife & I got no response.I hurt her so much over the years that dont think she will ever forgive me.....but I have faith.Its frustrated but i must have patience because its all in Gods time

Today i asked my wife & I got no response

Today went amazing truly the best day in my life in a long time. I wanted so bad to carry it over into tonight but I feel like a failure.

This was very challenging for me because one of my faults is the need to always defend myself but I sat and listened to what he said without any expression or comments. When he was done I said thank you.It was truly amazing.

how can I do this dare if my husband is no longer living with us and rarely talk to me except if it concerns our kids.

day 5 is a tough one. I'm just tired of conversations turning into arguments

this was hard. but I found out were fighting over sex literally. I just had surgery and became menopausal so things are different but I guess I do t give him enough sex. nevermind the changes in my body those don't matter

this will be hard to do without starting an argument because if even ask in a loving why he will blow up and say there you go with those stupid questions

Guys: how do y'all react when your wife seems to not want you to even touch her? I'm trying to stay calm and rational, but inside it just burns me up...

I asked my wife the question. says she don't sit around thinking about that..I asked her again if she'd think about.. said that's one thing that irritates her..I won't stop asking. seems just on day 4 things are getting worse than better.

I tried to open up and talk and it went horrible, it made things worse than better.

what if I already know what irritates him? we've had this conversation before. this is a little tough one especially when your spouse has no idea that you're doing this. I'm not sure if I can complete this today

this was a hard day. been trying to push through. felt the urge to try and defend myself but i held back and letter her vent it out. gave me some things to think about though

My spouse refuses to respond.

please pray for my wife and I. this Love Dare is teaching me that I know nothing about love and it may be to late to do something about. heart breaking!

please pray for my wife and I.

so, I asked him.. he said it rude to comment, he loves me just the way I am. he did agree w one thing I do, but still wouldn't go farther and says he doesn't want me to change even for him

I love my gf so much and .we dont fight we communicate .were honest and faithful..but we do have small issues and I know that prolly normal ..I just have to be patient cuz I never want to loose her ORBIT

I didn't have to ask, he told me everything that he didn't like about me and I just listened. 😔

in need of lots of prayers today. its the first day my husband will be at the house since he left on the 1st. he is still leaning towards divorce. I have faith in God and our marriage we can work through this

pride will make this uncomfortable however the willingness to be transparent,receptive, and repentive is priceless

this one scares me somewhat... but ill be doing this tonight.

Asked my wife but she is going out tonight with her best friend. said she would let me know. I am worried about her going out since we are not living together right now. I'm in my own head

I think I k ow everything, I'm argumentative, and I think the lesser of him

i sat with him last night and let him talk. He got everything out in the open and still is wanting a divorce. Im broken still and he told me to grow up and get over it. Im losing my faith because he says he is a godly man but treating me otherwise.

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He says everyday he wants a divorce but im sticking to this. I listened to him and then wrote him what I needed to do and committed to do for the next 30 days if he would just let give me my million and 1 chance. please keep praying for us.

if we fail do we start over or just try again tomorrow?

second time around not much hope , but still love her and pray

Mine was watching the ( Netflix ) while driving and eating dinner.Valid point conversat more. I didn't use to do this she was always on phone for the last 10 years I picked up phone and she set hers down and I never noticed

so I have asked this, he always tells me the same things... he thinks when I cry it's because I'm looking for attention, he can't stand that I don't take better care of myself physically, and he said I can't keep a job, but he wants me at home...

I asked. he said starting a fight? didn't answer me. but I genuinely asked

This is my 2nd 40 days love dare in a row and I can see small breakthrough, I can hug her and kiss her now, one instance we had sex after many months of not fighting, however she still keep saying that she want separation and divorce.

hes been playful and sweet the last two days and honestly it scares me some.... but I keep praying everyday. we have our good days and bad but I won't give up.

mine were that I dwell in money, I'm needy bedroom my anxiety, and he feels I want too much sex. since I had to receive there wasn't much conversation.

I keep trying but she wont tell me I am going to have to skip this one.

being it was Christmas day, I choose to skip this one and put it on the burner for another day.

I did this today through text. I was nervous bc he hates talking about emotions with me most of the time. guess I'll see what happens!

my husband said that the only thing he would say is I'm too friendly and I always speak on a level 10 there is no low volume at all

difficult to not speak being that my bad habit is getting the last, if not i feel defeated

Done, went well. Kept my mouth shut and only listened, after thinking what my wife said it acctually made sense.

attempted to do this dare today. Was reminded of the long message she sent telling me she wants a divorce. she only see's me as our daughters father and nothing more. this hurts but I will keep going. Its for me!

was a little rough to not justify, but he then opened up and asked me to give 3 back. 😲

how can i talk to my wife if she doesn't even want to talk back... and I've been trying everything.... praying for help

how can i talk to her if she does not want to

The hardest part was putting my ego away and actually listen to what she had to say. I know you can't undo what is done but I can definitely learn and get better from it. I pray that God hears my prayers and can help heal my wife's heart.

Wow! This was hard! Then he asked me the same about him and it sparked a long, deep,calm heart felt conversation. Still a long way to go, a start!

I've asked my wife and her response was that she wants us to get through marriage counseling first because she wouldn't want to answer based on how she's feeling now.

I asked my spouse this. she responded today. not communicating, no affection, feeling unwanted and under appreciated. I responded back with thank you. I have lacked in all these. God help me through this.

I ask my girlfriend this. She reluctant to give an answer. Almost as if she didnt want to hurt. I feel her pulling away and I love her, but I'm not sure if i can save the relationship. Would it be better just to let her go?

Oh my its a doosy

I have asked my husband this question and he told me told me that he has to think about it. Dont know if its a good thing or a bad thing? still waiting for his answer.

This one was extremely difficult. His 3 things turned into 10 things.

This is probably the hardest task. Love shouldn't be rude, or negative, yet in my relationship it has become just that.

So she wants no communication whatsoever. How do I complete this if I can't even message her? We do not see each other at all

This one is going to be extremely hard. I had an arrair 4 years ago. And to this day she still holds onto it.

she tells me every day without me asking. I'm working on me, but I have a hard time being reminded of where I am inadequate on a daily basis

well I messaged him. he ignored me.

The women, hiding things and lying about things.

I have to learn to not be so worried when I don't hear from him

i did not complete this one. i already know his thoughts on this

not doing this one. I will not willingly open the door to his attacks

funny thing is she freely told me something that I do that I didnt realize I was doing. now I can chnage that.

Only response I got was "questions like these." But I know some other things hes said in the past. so I'll work on those.

I said three things. He said that he only had one thing. That I don't listen. I hear that. A lot. Jesus, give me ears to hear. Make me quick to listen. Slow to speak. In Your Name I pray. Amen.

Oh, Lord! THIS is terrifying!! Jesus, help me do this right!!

well before I started this dare he told me the things that drive him nuts. I speak b4 i think, I take my frustration from work out on him, and im too quick to overreact. this dare has been helping with those things so im working on them

1. When I bring up certain topics with others 2. When I am confrontational with others 3. She feels like she is last place on my list of priorities, and my phone takes precident over her.

M - i asked him. First thing was, that i shouldn't push him to do things. He didn't tell me any other things, but complaining surely is on the list. I am on it!

M - i will do this today and report back.

Truth be told, I have a protection order against me from my husband... that I have been breaking in order to be with him and our two kids. I pray daily for God to heal my marriage and family. Now all I can do is pray and stay away!

my husband thought about me: 1. You talk too much 2. You like stupid things/you easy to manipulate.

It is part of the process. It is better your spouse tells you about things that need attention than Yeshua/Jesus. We want to have a clean heart and renewed Spirit and a renewed mind.

yep, still haven't been able to ask this one... skipping it for now! I gotta keep going forward and not get stuck!

Ok I'm taking a really hard time asking my husband this. I feel like I'm not going to be able to handle his answers. Help!

eerdere jaren aan André gevraagd. Komt weinig uit. Als hij boos is noemt hij dingen die hij later ontkent. Als hij rustig is weet hij het niet... Ik denk dat ik wel drammerig kan zijn.

6. distracting from conversation 7. leaving the conversation

5. fighting about touchy subjects, money, ex and children.

1.Complaining 2.Accusations 3.The Phone and the watch 4.Not feel like had freedom 5.How to use the kitchen