it will be hard to do because she has another phone number. i pushed her away cause of my drug use and anger. i wish i had away to contact her.

it will be hard to do because she has another phone number. i pushed her away cause of my drug use and anger. i wish i had away to contact her

it will be hard to do because she has another phone number. i pushed her away cause of my drug use and anger. i wish i had away to cintact her

I did this 4 my bf but he doesnt answer his phone.

That'd be good if my husband actually got a job and kept it to support his family instead of bleeding me and mine dry. He had the audacity once to say I was looking at him as a meal ticket because I'm disabled,but when we got together he had nothing.

I dont know what to do. We still live together, probably only cuz we live with his parents. We had to move out of our place. He still talks to me, we still watch movies together, but I know he's talking to someone, but I love him with all my heart.

Her first response was "how do you think Im doing?". She insisted shes not moving back and needs to get her things back. I said "okay. Im not asking you to" i wished her a good day. Do i keep pressing?

ill keep working

we were having a discussion and it started to turn into an argumdnt as he keeps saying i dont communicate clearly . this is always frustrating as i try hard to explain mysekf.

she says we're done completley but we still kiss and cuddle, shes seeing another person i need some advice im lost without her please do i continue giving effort

she says we're done completley but we still kiss and cuddle, shes seeing another person i need some advice im lost without her

i call her to see how she felt she was hung over i bought her a monster and i took her out to lunch, took her to our son house for a visit then to buy shoes for her new job she starts Mon but she still claim we are completely done do i keep trying?

I was scared. but I did and she said no. still avoiding me and sometimes I feel like giving up

I'm trying so hard, I'm always the one trying but I don't know how much longer I can continue to try before I give up... We're 10 years together, I want it to be many more but idk if I can keep going with someone who's so selfish. any advice?

I didn't have the courage to do this as my partner told me to move out if his house just yesterday. I moved out and I felt very humiliated, so how do I go on from here😭

tried to laugh and be nice with her. it works and also if she remains firm in her action.. I cant do anything but still pray and court her

Been semding messages to my husband to know how he is doing but he is just harsh that he said he does not need me to text or call him in working hours. he said he will only update me if he is in emergency. that always crushes my heart.

does any one know of I should move on to day five if they don't reply or answer your question?

I'm not sure my marriage will last. But I've come to realize I need to do this for myself. I need to learn to love like Jesus. I pray that Jesus gives me the strength and ability to do that. so that He can show His love through me.

She still mention that we are not bati yet invited me in an event where...

i was hard today the worst ever it seems im getting noware it seems im waisting my time i dont want to give up but i also dont want to presure

So far, so good. This challenge is helping me more than him, I think. I'm realizing that I start a start a lot of the arguments between us. Day 4, here we go!

I tried but was a busy day, it did not end well im not sure what today holds.

today hasnt been bad. this one as little as it is seemed to be a big deal for me. not sure as for her but i know for me. i felt honored to do for her as she has done for me over the years.

I ask if he ok I was there if he neded anythin said he was goin to store would be back never come back was at crack house in truck with a whore his boss is goin to talk to me today with details any sugestions

It was a relief to talk with him. I miss him so much and counting down the days until he will be in to visit. i just pray its for a longer amount of time than last visit.

Am trying but am been constantly rejected . As much as i want to fight for this relationship it is making feel stupid , like am worthless staying is hard leaving is easy .

Day 4: Was awesome for my fiance and I. We're really enjoying The Love Dare . My best friend and her husband started it today as well 😎😍 That's awesome! God is so Good!

he did but he is too ANGRY

I asked him what i could do to make his day better. My Husband said "Ya stop calling me"

Technically tomorrow is day 4 but I thought I would do days 3/4 together. Especially after his responses on day 2. His response to day 4 was that there was nothing I could do to make his day any better.

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He got at me for saying let's slow downn and take our time, when he is mad he alway tells me to leave. He then attacks me for being me. But I will stay strong for the both of us.

We had a argument last night. I refrained from say any hurtfull things. But todays challenge is also a failure as she does not wat me to do anything for her.

Done He said there is nothing I have to do for him

My husband wants to talk to me He told me he decided that he thinks I need to move out and give him time to find him self. He told me that I am the reason he can not go on and he is at a point that he wants to take his life.

keep trying as love just doesnt dissappear

i called mybwife today many times todaybsaid micebthings only to come home and be manipulated into a dispute whereby she has been contacting my ex wife and making me feel guilty about my 2 kids and speaking to my parents

there is no love. no matter what i do shes colder than ever. God i need you more than ever now.

Got served with divorce papers yesterday. Still wondering how this is going to go,she seems so certain. I can't give up though. Day 4... here we go.

it was difficult to find a moment to do this. he bombards me with stuff to do during the day whilst im at work.

day 4 is going to be a hard one for me... I already text her all day asking how her day is and I never get a response. she can't take calls at work so it's going to be a hard one to figure out...

we always ask each other about how we are. i am going through depression right now and sk i am the one always getting attention but today i realized that he needs attention and love himself. .

Day 4. I asked her how she was doing and if there was anything I could do for her. I got ok and no. one day at a time.its not easy but very worth it.

He called me first to discuss something about work. I still checked on him afterwards & asked if i could do anything for him but he dismissed me. I sent him a video of us & a sweet message which he didn't reply to but I felt more at ease. -L

Day 4.Wow!. I was amazed. . I called to ask him how was is day and he spoke before i did. He said I was thinking about you Sqik.. i almost melted with any unspoken words. I had to snap myself out of the lalaland.. This day was beautiful Red Dove😊

day 4 I asked my girlfriend how she was doing she said she was doing ok asked if there was anything I can do for her she said no but I'm not giving up this time I know that

Praying for the horrible feeling of betrayal to leave my mind. I'm struggling with knowing that he's cheated the entire relationship and marriage. Doing this for me to heal and heal our marriage. Trying

I asked him if he needed anything washed up for the week and he said no. I then asked is there anything you needed or wanted me to do. He responded with "no, why would I want you to do something for me." I said well IDK but I wanted to make sure.

We had a big argument last night, so my texts went ignored today. I expect that. I'm still going through with this.

Day 4! This is something that was not as consistent as it needs to be in our relationship. But for the past 6 months we have been really intentional about reaching out to each other during the day just to do that check in and see how we we are doing

I'm hurt today not answering my call or text. this is really hard 😔😔😔 He's birthday is coming up .He don't want anything..any ideas what to get him. everyone want something on their birthday pls help with gift ideas thank you

day 4 now. my wife atleast came home. wont share a bed with me and looks at me with contempt (which i deserve) but she is home with me. baby steps one at a time

Day 4 is amazing. He is always checking on me. I am trying to learn to do it more. We have trust issues in our marriage. It was caused by sin. But we have rededicated our hearts and loves back to Jesus and asking him to help us trust and love again.

okay call my wife everything is fine at home. my wife and I have the same problem if she's talking I interrupt her while she's still speaking she does it to me too that's one of our inner demons

I just allowed him to be able to sleep since he worked late last night so he got home this morning with breakfast and tired. So as soon as he layed down I took off his boots and massaged his feet.

Day 4 was awesome! He calls me all the time but I never call him. He was so happy I called. I know I need to do this more often. I'm always trying to be strong and independent but I need to take a few minutes now and then to give him a call.

we work together same company and every day i go down to where he is asking how hes doing handing him ither a snack or somthing to drink and if i can assist him in any way sometime he says nothing.. just keep me company

Day 4: We used to text each other throughout the day. I've been teleworking since covid, and he's semi-retired; we see each other all day long, so the texts have stopped. This will be interesting getting the texts re-started.

How do you handle this challenge if your spouse isnt talking to you and show they dont care about nothing you do for them now because you messed up so many times

the day 4 dare wasn't acknowledged by my wife, made me a little angry but i am over it ,we will see what happens on day 5,

the dare wasn't acknowledged by my wife, made me a little angry but i am over it ,we will see what happens on day 5,

Today is my birthday. My husband is working out of town, but I still asked how his day was & if I could do anything for him. He said just to enjoy my day. That made me smile.

Day 4! I am seeing changes with our relationship. The lines of communication are opening! I called my husband on his way home from work. He works midnights. I asked him how his night went and if there is anything I could do for him.

Day 4! I am seeing changes with our relationship. qe are communicating! I called my husband on his way home from work. He works midnights. I asked him how his night went and if there is anything I could do for him. He really appreciated it!!

I'm redoing day 4. She was in meetings all day long. We were able to play a game together as a family. a positive experience.

bought my wife 6 tulips a stitch stuffy since she likes stitch favorite candy and stitch sucks i dont want to lose her

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Hi! I'm Miguel, I'll be praying for you and your family, Amen!!!

I have been married for 16 years and have 4 beautiful kids. My wife wants a seperation to find herself and happiness. I dont want to seperate. I love her.

his wallet was stolen . I bought him a new with a photo of him and our daughter engraved on it . he just thru it back on the table

i sent a card to her job becaus she has block me on the phone and move is that ok for day 4

how do u do day 4 if she wont see u or talk to u

i failed my day 4 on thanksgiving. we have small kids and traveling for holidays is hard and i lost my cool a couple times. i didnt apologize and i did check in with him and said he was fine but i know i dropped the ball yesterday

Thanksgiving is my day 4 so I resolved to be a help not an observer. She said she was alright when I asked how she was. She thanked me for getting the dishes today. Felt good.

just handled day 4. short sweet and to the point. but she didn't sound mad or upset.

Day 4 She Said Nope im good prayer for me please

Day 4 She Said Nope im good

I message her and said how are you doing and ask her can I do anything for her today, she said Nope, Im good

Im really looking forward to doing this dare, after mentioning to me that she wants to separate and possibly divorce, I hope it works for me. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Im really looking forward to doing this dare, after mentioning to me that she wants to separate and possibly divorce, I hope it works for me.

day 4: perfect!! this was easy today. i did nothing but care for his needs. our truck broke down and i had it taken care of before he was off work. no stress on his back.

unable to contact my wife since i am blocked on all forms of communication, but did message her mom to say that i pray my wife has a nice day at work and a blessed week.

honestly ask this question all the time and i get nothing back. she soesnt want to apeak to me. just has her walls up

Got to day 4, things were going well. I found out more things today. Everything blew up and we are back to square 1. I regret telling him I know. Starting over Day 1. prayers please

what do you do when even your attempts at love doesn't change lack of motivation. when either depression or interest changes nothing. God help me and him, he can tell a difference

I called her and we talked about our son. then I brought her dinner at work. she can tell something is different but shes still guarded with me. day 4 and I already feel like it's hard. I'm not sure where shes at and if she see my effort.

Wow Day 4 and I'm still giving my all. I'm trying to be positive but with his schizoaffective disorder I'm not sure anything will help us.

so today is day 4, the love dare is done for today. I called my husband to see how he was doing or if there was anything that I could do for him. His reply ok why are you acting weird what am I walking into whenever I get home.

I will try we have different shifts, so I'll have to leave a message.

God is not done!! I keep my eyes on Him, focus on His work in me. His is faithful & working all things for good. The devil is a deceiver! NOT TODAY DEVIL!!! NOT MY HUSBAND! God, rattle his dry bones to life! day 4

she said no

Today has been by far the hardest my husband came home with a hickey from the other woman. is this a sign? I am praying God will restore my marriage and he will come back to me and the kids. my heart is shattered into a million pieces

the enemy tried it but God!I heard a different voice ill wait on you this morning and knew exactly what it meant. ill wait on you Lord, for my purpose, your plan, my choices, I'll wait on you.

today was difficult but didn't say anything negative or hurtful when my wife told me she still wanted to separate I'm hopeful and pray the lord warms her heart

As much as i love my wife, today I feels like giving up, she notice but don't seem to appreciate anything. Now this is an 40 days journey, not 4. God, pls carry me through this pain and showing me the way to faith. 💔

I do this day 4 alot, daily.... he doesn't and I'm feeling selfish. I feel like I'm getting on his nerves

Made his favorite food last night- pasta salad and he loved it said I did a good job

He surprised me with a date night tonight, at least he is trying and I am too. tomorrow I'm going to surprise him with his favorite meal. pasta salad.

We do this anyways, it's one of the few consistent positives we still have.

I may have completely tanked things after yesterday. Did well with day 4 but was feeling sad about things being distant and caused a heated conversation. Feel so defeated and like all attempts are pointless. Smh

He didn't answer the questions at all avoided them altogether. Then his job got in the way of my backup plan. I already know what he needed and offered to meet him with his fav dinner since ha had not eaten. That didn't work either.

Today on day4. I phone my husband and to my surprise he answered and I spoke to him. In so much more he added by telling me what did upset him today as well. Still no talking when at home but we are getting there

Day 4 was where I finally failed a day I'm going to keep working. Forgiveness is a daily choose and living in the past will always lead to pain but God doesn't want us living in pain he wants us living in his glory and joy!

what if this challenge falls on a weekend?

I did this today. She hasn't spoken to me since 9 pm last night. I'm doing this love dare to show her that I am not gonna take her for granted like I did while we was together

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I pray God gives me an open door today and that I am able to speak life into my wifes life and not expect anything back.

how do I do something for a man who doesnt want nothing from me? I can't even read his love language because he changes up. the test said quality time.

Day 3 and 4 down on day 4, so not bad. Just didn't get a chance for 3 on 3 so I caught up. Feeling good. 😁

My apologies, my girlfriend got me to do this Love dare, but it's just another thing to make her look good..I'm so hurt.I will find my soulmate some day. Thanks Love dare. Bye.

I had to text this one but I asked how his day was and if there was anything I could do for him this evening. No response. He is very detached sometimes. It hurts so badly.

well, I asked and he requested that I make our meal for the evening. he usually does that, though I would have made that particular meal even if he hadn't asked. it's all good. moving on...

I carried over some anger from an argument with my husband last night, however, when I text him and ask him if there was anything he needed from me, he immediately text back and said he would come talk to me.

Asked her if I could do something for her while she was out shopping. Turns out she forgot her wallet. (Thank God!) I was able to really do something for her. Normally I would have told her I'm busy and get it herself.

I tried to do something for her today and she refused. she has built a wall against me and wants me to have no part in her daily doings. most of the time I don't even know where she is at or doing. Today's task not received well.

I was flying all day but I asked if there was anything I could do for him from afar. nope. he did ask if there's anything I needed.

Today was hard, things went all the way wrong. There's nothing to be grateful for type of day. Self-pity and just frustration & anger

Actually, we were at home together. But i constantly check if she's fine. I hope she really is. Emotions are battle that people can hide from their smiles. - Vii

today was really hard as we do speak via msgs but not telephonicly. I did phone him but he sounded irritated that I phoned. I hope it all works out as I don't want to forsake my vows and get divorced.

the day got better we are going to the drag races tonight with friends!

how do I fix this I just let my mouth over load my brain ans said something to my husband that I should have just kept quiet about now he don't even want me to spend the weekend with him

yesterday evening was rough but we are good now, I left the house before him this morning and did end up texting him to see if there was anything he'd like me to do for him?!

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I am having a real problem with running my mouth. I don't know what else to do to get him to realize to spend time with me.

Only made it four days in and my wife tells me to stop being so nice to her, that is making her angry. I don't think this is going to go well.

so far this has been very helpful. we have not fought in a week.

this one was quite simple all my fiance wants is my time and my love

we had a small conversation today. he said don't worry everything will be fine. made me cry.

talked to his sister and realized he's probably being distant because of all that just happened I'm our home not just us but with his brother and best friend. so I'm the one he's taking it out on.

I'm done.he decided to have another woman at my house while I was at work to support us while he does absolutely nothing. then when my daughter asked him who was there, he bit her head off. maybe if he treated me like somebody it'd be worth saving

I'm fine.he decided to have another woman at my house while I was at work to support us while he does absolutely nothing. then when my daughter asked him who was there, he bit her head off. maybe if he treated me like somebody it'd be worth saving

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home all day together. day was wonderful. asked him how his day was going a few times. we took a bath together..2st time in a long time...small steps

I work with my husband we own our own business but I asked him first thing this morning how he was doing and I have also asked him several times today if he needed anything

I work with my husband we own our own business but I asked him this morning first thing how he was doing and if I could get him anything I have asked him that several times today

somedays are easier then others still need to watch my tongue

I text him this morning to see how his first day at a new church. he didn't go but he still answered. I would like to think that this was hopeful but he still wants to see a lawyer next week to file. Please pray for us.

tried this today and was told just stop

Today was n great calm day... I tried to help with many things as I could. Our anniversary is soon wish I could just take him to a place for us to reconnect like old times

Today, We spoke for a little bit. It was nice to hear her voice. I asked her to go on a date with me, Sunday. She told me that she would think about it but said she may not be ready to see me yet. Please send out your prayers for us.

I have tried all of the first 4 days suggestions. She gets angry all the time. I can't finish expressing any feelings whatsoever. It's hard.

I didn't message him while he is at work. I have already today though. I hope he responds to me normally he doesn't.

My husband finally agreed to do this with me. He says he is going to stay, but doesn't want to be pushed. I just wish he would turn back to God and I know God would heal my marriage.

yesterday was hard but today was easier. we have our good days.. today he wanted to cuddle when our son went down for a nap. we have small moments like that.

I did this yesterday and well my husband laughed and said what can you do in not there. I laughed back and said idk but aleast you know if ya truck breaks down imma jump in my car and come get you. he said Alright imma hold you 2 that.

this is something I do everyday just to make sure he is ok for when he comes home and does not have to do anything

Phoned my wife at work, said no thanks dont need anything now nothing i can think of. I happy for this response.

odd timing but ill try... see ya tmw

Communication seems to be rebuilding. We had a good conversation and even got to see her smile at me genuinely. I honestly stopped before because of the short responses. Keep pushing everyone

This is not changing anything in her behavior not even in the slightest bit...

I call my wife on a daily to ask how her day is going, most of the time her response is (going) that's about it.

simple question. I would ask him this regularly though.

I tried to call my spouse. she didn't answere. so I sent her a text instead and no response all day. this was on Saturday. today is Sunday and I did hear from her. she stated she didn't want to respond.

I did this and she seemed happy I asked, that was the only emotion I got.

I think I'm giving up, I'm drained and tired. I have been fighting for almost a month for this man. I'm hurt and heartbroken.

tried just sending a good morning text and got a stand offish response but I'm not giving up determined to call later. we will see

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Going to my best to complete this but as far as her I'm done trying. she moved her stuff out and had someone else try to complete the work I started. her answer from yesterday was " I need space ". not a good morning or a thank from previous days

So lost. She not only didn't respond but highlighted and book marked the definition of separation. Not only that but packed up everything of hers and the dogs stuff. Feeling like so done. after she messaged me say. "I need space."

What do you you do when your partner wants space

This dare is something i already do almost everyday. So I made this dare more about thinking thoughtful before I responded to anything, I perceive to be, negative that my husband may say or do.

well this was a smack in the face. I asked what I could do. he said leave so he could get more of his stuff. hanging on by a thread.

This is a daily thing I already do.

Texted him good morning before he was up, asking how he's doing. since he is not home and this is something I would normally do. I still asked if I could help him today.

This one is hard because he's out of state and has to work today where he can't really look at his cell phone or answer a call. and he's working until 10:30 at night. I did send him a text though seeing how his day was going.

today was easy she was very happy to talk about her it was nice to see that smile again

M - well, my husband is still working at home due to Corona and will for the foreseeable future, so not sure how I can do this one.

I asked the hubby if he might need my help with something and he said call AAA and renew our membership... They only wanted to talk to him since he's first on the account! I wasn't very helpful after all.

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Hi, has this worked for anyone?