32 - Love meets sexual needs
If at all possible, try to initiate sex with your husband or wife today. Do this in a way that honors what your spouse has told you (or implied to you) about what they need from you sexually. Ask God to make this enjoyable for both of you as well as a path to greater intimacy.
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Husband has no interest in me and says-there is no connection. I had quit trying to initiate sex after months of rejection. Tried to initiate it for this Dare. Yep, got turned down again.
i would love for US to be one intimately but anytime we have he thinks immoral thoughts and well i try to help him only think of us and he pushes away.
will try to initiate this week as we have done few weeks ago
I just had our second child a week ago today and have not been cleared by my Dr to have sex and he's been getting oral almost every day by me.
I am really struggling, my husband has turned my son against me and has really become a horrible person, he won't share any money matters with me, we are still married.
I am really struggling, my husband has turned my son against me and has really become a horrible person, he won't share any money matters with me, we are still married. At this point i wish he would just leave already
I'm stuck, he has moved into the granny flat and there are letters going between our attorneys. I don't know what to do or how to approach this.
I thought there was zero chance of me completing this dare and I was planning on skipping it. Just three days ago my wife said she didn't want intamacy. Early this morning she initiated sex with me. I was truly stunned and was a miracle from God.
I came home trying to have sex, but she was sleep, I brought home a candy bar she wanted and she woke up to eat it, but she was sleepy so, maybe we get into when we both off this weekend
This is going to be great, she says I don't initiate it, but that's about to change when I get off tonight from work I told her be up waiting on me
im going to say that this isnt going to happen anytime soon. My wife wants a divorce, she wants.nothing to do with me sexually. It's hard to initiate sex when she looks at you with total disgust.
Being separated from my wife, there are several of these steps that I have had to skip. Not necessarily this step, but it's discouraging looking back and seeing how many steps I had to skip and not complete. Honestly, it makes me want to stop.
I am going to have to stop here and start over she is not ready for this step I will give her time and when it does happen it will be special
I enjoyed this challenge. sex has never been our issue. Thank God we were on good terms today. Hasn't been easy by far but well worth it. glad we are still willing to try! may God bless our union richly forever in Jesus sweet name
this one is hard... we are currently seperated for the past 4 months still living in the same house he sleeps in the guest room. we have barely had any physical touch so this challenge is almost impossible... any suggestions?
my husband and I are not able to have sex he is impotent from medicine that he takes but refuses to stop taking it
Did this in an honourable way. Never really been our problem our problems were deeper and with Gods help and his word we are starting to move forward in a positive way.
I'm not sure how to handle today. my husband has never expressed anything that he wants sexually
since she is my ex wife I will not be sexual until we get remarried if that ever happens but I will atleast attempt to brush my hand behind her ear by her lobes if she will let me close to her. I'm praying for an opportunity without crossing a line.
this won't be happening ever. she said that she is past trying to repair our marriage and I can't fight anymore. I have been wearing my ring everyday but I think it will be my last day
I tried to initiate and got told I need to take better care of myself and that I've gained weight, tried again today and got told I just don't get it he doesn't feel good we only have sex when he wants a quickie
today I feel like I completed this task bc I have my husband intimacy which I have learned recently he enjoys along with spontaneity. he was highly intrigued.
I have to skip this. my husband says he will not give our marriage a second chance no matter what. being initmate with him, gives me hope, and after it happens he makes sure I know he wants the divorce.
well I tried to initiate sex but I just get met with get out of there.
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Keep praying for your family. Ask God for strength. God can help. Try to take a moment and breath sometimes and find something that you can find peace in. Definitely pray for your husbands heart.