The Lovedare

25 - Love forgives
2 Corinthians 2 vs 10 : Now whom you forgive anything, i also forgive. for if indeed i have forgiven anything, i have forgiven that one for your sakes in the presence of christ

Whatever you haven’t forgiven in your mate, forgive it today. Let it go. Just as we ask Jesus to “forgive us our debts” each day, we must ask Him to help us “forgive our debtors” each day as well. Unforgiveness has been keeping you and your spouse in prison too long. Say from your heart, 'I choose to forgive.'

 

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I forgive my spouse in regards to US plans and other deep matters. I choose to Love her more and fully. I feel the presence of Freedom from Jesus and Spirit.



This is on part I am asking God to help my wife with. In as much as I want her to forgive me, I think she is too vindictive even of others. she tends to hold a lot of grudges for too long. I'm still praying for her though



day 25. its still hard. he brings his 'frirnd' over EVRRYDAY! She acts like shes doing nothing wrong. shes destroying a marriage a family and shes happy about it. but im trusting God. im staying out of it. God is in control



how do you forgive yourself when you are the reason your marriage is failing and your spouse fell in love with someone else?



Hubby went to see a lawyer yesterday, it feels like all this has been in vain 😭😭

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It's not remember the main point of this is to work on yourself and develop you into the mate that they want to restart with. When you are ready they will see the change you won't have to tell them. During this time also strengthen your relationship with God and put him first so he may help yall.


My husband went to see a lawyer today, I'm broken

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Pray, pray, pray. Talk to God about your husband. Pray for him to prick his heart.


I've forgiven myself for the things I've done too him. But he can't forgive me. I'm hoping & praying he'll forgive me because otherwise he's out the door. He's already sleeping on the couch & waiting for the right time to tell our children & leave.

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Pray for your family. God is a God of restoration.


I'm struggling with this one, I say I forgive but I don't feel like I have truly forgiven and also some of the things are still happening, especially by what he is putting me and my children through. I don't want to move on until this is done

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Pray that God can help you both to get through this and help you to forgive. Search his word and scripture on forgiveness. Ask for his help he hears you.


I'm struggling to forgive when the hurt is still so bad. The main thing is why can't he try?????



I always forgive my wife for her attitude towards me, how she talks to me like im a child, and for fussing telling me what I need to do, instead of asking me can I do it. When she wrong she show apologize instead of saying



not sure i want to mark this as complete because it is ongoing.

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same here.


He's not the one that needs a whole lot of forgiving, and I always do forgive him when it comes to stuff that offends me.



My wife has been good to me, no need for any forgiveness. God, I'm only praying, that she can find it in her hart to forgive me, the hurt i cause her and the children, causing her to stop loving me..

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I pray for God to soften her heart and forgive you👏👏
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there should be unconditional love for each other always remember that if there's unconditional love for each other there won't be no need for mess ups in your lives that's the way it is with me and my wife
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I know how you feel, pray that she can. Remember always take it to God, as he is always in control even when we aren't. Praying for yall.


This one is has been hard for me. I prayed like crazy in church and realized something important. I am not her judge or jury. It's my job to love her with everything I have build her up and honour her in all I do.

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so. much. this.
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amen


God doesn't hate so we must forgive even the worst things that have happened and people that done them , the lord forgive us and we ask him to forgive us for our sins , so forgive and love not hate .



My husband never lets things go he always hold on to things I think I have a lot do with pass her some past relationships even though I told him I am not them.

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ur never that's y ur the one with the ring just saying keep pushing on n pray


this one is hard I forgive husband everyday and I forgive him in my heart things that he has done wrong people tell me but they don't tell me what happened but it hurts me everyday scares me but I forgive him everyday in my heart



I had to ask his forgiveness. I OD so i asking forgiveness for almost ending my life and the pain i caused him thinking he was going to lose me. I told him I would be waiting. I went through the same feelings.

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wow! thanks for sharing. that was very honest of you