The Lovedare

23 - Love always protects
1 Corinthians 13 vs 7 : Bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Remove anything that is hindering your relationship, any addiction or influence that’s stealing your affections and turning your heart away from your spouse.

 

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"I have loved other things when I should have loved you." Porn, video games, my phone, myself. The first will go completely. The others will take a backseat to her. God, please make me selfless each day.



Goodbye, Lust, Porn, Masturbation! You are through!



Remove all forms of Pornography, Masterbation, Phone Addiction and livestream. Manage to restore relationship to God, my wife and to myself with complete Sleep.

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it is Masturbation, not Masterbation.


last night my husband never came e home . I'm praying he will give our marriage a chance to be Christ centered and thrive like it was always supposed to do . iv wanted to throw in the towel but my husband deserves better than me just giving up.

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God bless you and your marriage. I wish my wife soon to be ex wife would be as devoted as you to try and give us a other chance.


ive been doing a lot of praying s friend prayed about beeaking the hold the other woman has on him. she believes God told her hes going to use this to work in my husband. pray for my marriage PLEASE there is power in prayer



I like spending time with my wife before I leave for work at 2:30 but sometimes she just wants to relax on phone, watch tv, or go down road to her God mama's house when she gets off at 12pm



When my wife gets off work I have a lil time to spend with her she gets off at 12pm, and I leave for work at 2:30pm. When she gets home she's in her phone, or watched tv, or trying to get some sleep or running to her God mama's house



please pray for me. i am starting a new job. It requires 8 + hours of daily computer time. I want to avoid working past dinner time like I used to. I worried about deadlines. I also consumed dinner conversations with work stress.



please pray for me. I'm starting a new job. it requires me to be in the computer 8 hours+. I am concerned to come back to patterns of working past dinner time. I also worry a lot about deadlines and this has affected our communication in the past.

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Just let God know your concerns and pray for him to get you through the day..


I feel this is one we actually are ok at. while we both have our "distractions", they are not from our love. only to just unwind with(aka video games), nothing ungodly.

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Great idea and spending time together is definitely a plus. Godbless.


My hart belongs to my wife, all of it. Made mistakes, towards her children, non intentionally, that cause her to stop loving me. Praying to God that i can be forgiven and deservea her love again.

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Your first love should be God and in turn the byproduct will be better love towards them.


I quit drinking and smoking 7 months ago deleted all social media's and it has done wonders for us. She did the same and we are really connecting on a deeper level daily. I thank God for doing amazing work in our marriage and lives.

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nice!
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Nice!!!
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I did the same thing! hi5 and I feel that doesn't even feel like I am missing those at all.
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Great news
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I love this


I wish this would be from both sides equally, then there would be total attention towards both .



This is the hardest for my wife. Relationship at work w married man / Leader. Will not stop or change toxic work place. Social media/phone and herself are most important. Just venting, I would Love my wife back. Prayers are welcome.

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hello friend. if you don't mind sharing, how are you doing with your spouse's phone and work influence in your marriage, since you last wrote? praying for you.
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Can we pray for each other.. I feel your pain.


the biggest thing I need to remove from our marriage is my phone. I spent more time on my phone than I did walking and spending time with my wife.



Online casino billionaire casino will be a big problem for my wife to leave please pray for me to get her to rid this from her daily tasks



I'm so confused, my wife said do not push her on reconciliation, however we had intimate intercourse for past few weeks. I'm not sure if she still want out marriage to be fix. God help me to answer my questions.

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I am trying to remove all things hindering my realitionship. I have worked today trying as hard as I can. Tomorrow I will continue my efforts. Unconditionally.
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Try praying for your wife and ask God to change her heart


he will have a hard time with this i feel like he has an underlying addiction and snap chat is an issue for him. I block anyone or delete apps if ppl try and tempt me. wish it was the dame both ways.



Removing Instagram and TikTok peronal accounts. Put in place filters to block other distraction sites and adult sites. Denouncing my attraction to pornography. Fasting to break depression, bitterness, slothfulness, and all addictions.



I am going to give up social media. Facebook doesn't make things better here. It makes me more depressed about my situation.

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I will be deleating all social media as soon as clear boundries are established. Understanding is the key and confusion seems to be the way things get misunderstood. Praying for a clear face to face resolution of all things that are unclear. It is a testimony of understanding and respect for one another. Healthy is the goal.


Babe...I love you to the moon and back!! Staying out of the doghouse. AL



this is a hard one....mainly for him I think. I am able to do whatever it takes.



I got rid of social media a long time ago. I don't watch t.v. anymore. This is hard because I remember all the romantic movies and t.v. shows, unfortunately. I actually said something about him not being romantic like that recently.