19 - Love is impossible
Look back over the dares from previous days. Were there some that seemed impossible to you? Have you realized your need for God to change your heart and to give you the ability to love? Ask Him to show you where you stand with Him, and ask for the strength and grace to settle your eternal destination.
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I feel like my husband gave or is giving up I just need a little help on prayers I LOVE MY HUSBAND DEEPLY
Early on I realized this is about changing my heart and trusting God to do His part. In the time I have left as her husband, God will help me persevere and truly love her as I should have all along. She deserves that and our kids need to see it.
Learning not to say unkind words to your spouse is very tough for me but a good lesson to treat them with kind words and firm in principles
this was hard as i have been a athias all my live i have seen the rejection and the last 3 weeks God has pulled me closer and i can say that im beginig a real relastionship wiht God
I wish there was someone that i could talk to because I am taking today's dare to heart but the thing is that my husband is such i liar and i can't take it anymore.
my wife told me today she wants a divorce. im broken
my wife nd i got a councilor.our marriage isnt a priority no time for us shes lways tired,gives 1 word conversion. i feel theres more resentment towards me rather than love and understanding each other. i think im slowly getting discouraged
i suffer from a mental disorder. it gets in the way of our marriage and its pushed her away. im working on that and our marriage at the same time and trying to save the marriage. its the most difficult thing ive ever endured.
Yes very encouraging. It's just hard to make your home Christ centered when you feel differently about music, movies etc. I've been gone a few days,but I'm going back tomorrow.
12 yrs old my husband lost his older siblings to train accident. Mom rejected him. He loves God but has depended on alcohol. He is very negative, sarcastic and critical. I am no longer happy. wish he would leave. I just need to know when to let go.
My husband has given up on our marriage because he said I've push our kids away. I take responsibility for part of it but I dont think this is 100% my fault. If I can repair my relationships with our teenage kids then my marriage my work.
Lord, thank you for the opportunities these last few days and helping me showing love to my wife. Lord putting the future in Your hands, knowing You will guide us the way. Thank you Lord!
I'm trying to forgive her the years of lies hurt bad. I've made terrible mistakes also but how do you trust when your partner lied to you about so much for so long. Please pray for us.
I am feeling so discouraged today. I feel like I'm getting nowhere. maybe even backwards. the kinder I am the more I feel like I'm in the friend zone and not her husband. she is dedicated to her boyfriend its killing me inside!!!
you ever feel like you wish you were gone , but not suicide, this is NOT a attempt just to let everyone know.this is how I feel .I am doing everything and she is doing little but loves me and does not want me gone
I ask God everyday if I am going down the right path. I need him more now than ever. I hope that he will place his hands on me and my wife and allow us to work things out and continue our marriage.
before my fiance i was so in love with God it was incredible. i lowered my standards for my fiance and have fallen itvseems out of favor with God. i know He loves and nothing will ever change that. pray that i get that fire back.
Thank You, Lord Jesus, for teaching me how to love my husband!!
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Pray for his heart to change. I learned you can't force him to, only God can help him if he is willing to do his part. And keep up with these dares! Repeat if needed--he just might change!