The Lovedare

16 - Love intercedes
3 John 1 vs 2 : Beloved, i pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers.

Begin praying today for your spouse’s heart. Pray for three specific areas where you desire for God to work in your spouse’s life and in your marriage.

 

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i hurt my wife and have asked for forgiveness, ive treated her like crap and now she wants to divorce, im praying for both our hearts to see forgiveness compassion and grace ,i pray that GOD allows us to have many more years together

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i did the same..hurt by not keeping my word...a good song..asking for Gods help...Broken togethet..casting crowns


To this point, my prayers were largely about me, asking God to change my heart and actions. She is far from God right now. Praying these things for her made me humble myself, because her heart truly is out of my hands. I trust God to do His part.



I have prayed for my wife this morning



its been 3 weeks since i was at home... yesterday it seems that there os a breaktru but still im away from my wife. i pray for a spirit of forgifness softer haert and to reignite the love



I hurt my wife badly with the truth about my past dealings. I pray for healing for her heart, even though she may find it difficult loving me again. I just want to see her free of hate and fear and terrible memories.



Praying for better communication. For less selfishness from the both of us. And for the issue of alcoholism he has that affects our marriage.



Day 16, Praying for my [husband's] heart. My prayer included asking God to change MY heart if my requests for his heart were not aligned with God's heart.

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Great prayer! Definitely allow God to do his work and help you both. To renew your minds and hearts.


I prayed for my husband to give his heart to God, return and soften his heart to love me, our marriage, and our family as God Christ does

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we pray God will answer this prayer!


I broke my wife's heart and our marriage. I pray that if she can't love me again, that she would want a healed heart for herself and allow God to heal her. I pray she can have peace/confidence in God. I'm struggling to keep going with these dares.

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Keep praying and leaning on God throughout this process. Develop a strong relationship with God ask him to show you how to love yourself and your wife how he does. Make sure commit to him and allow him and the word to renew your mind. Also, amen! Stay strong sir, push through, press in and let God transform you.


i have been trying every day to do better and still get called names and i have prayed for my husband to change his heart. i just hope things change

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In like manner, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, even if any obey not the word, they may without the word be gained by the behavior of their wives; 1 Peter 3:1 ASV https://bible.com/bible/12/1pe.3.1.ASV
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Keep showing him Godly character and praying for him. That is one of the ways the enemy works through our loved ones. Stand your ground in love and remain firm doing kindness and displaying the fruits of the spirit. Keep praying for your spouse it will change. Have a great day hope this helps Godbless.


I pray that God can make her hart soft to love me again as she did and that she could be herself again and that God gave me the strength to love her same. This morning at 11H00 she left me I'm broken. I't feels my hart are in pieces damn thats hard.

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I know it's hard right now but pray God makes the both of you better, than what you were. You want her back work on yourself keep her lifted up in prayer and let God do his work. Definitely do your best to use this time to grow closer to God and with that when she returns she can see the change and yall can build upon the rock of God. Keep praying and do your best to stay strong he is always listening.


I pray that God can make her hart soft to love me again as she did and that she could be herself again... This morning at 11H00 she left me I'm broken... I't feels my hart are in pieces damn thats hard...



I prayed and asked God to give my wife and I the desire of our heart which is to have a baby and live a comfortable life with peace in a new home and save my wife and myself, let us be able to go on a vacation and enjoy one another

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Good prayer. Amen!
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Amen. Great prayer


It's so hard, I don't want to lose my husband and it doesn't feel like anything is working

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Continue the dare and have faith in God and you. As your husband sees the change in you, he will change. Prayers out to you


this was easy so far

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Great to hear.. try to always keep your spouse lifted up in prayer as this will fortify your relationship under God.


Lord, i pray for the love of my wife, that she had not too long ago. I pray for forgiveness, for not showing required love to her children, leading to her not loving me anymore. Lord, i pray for her tenderness! Amen

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Amen. Ask him to show you how to love her and her children. He will show you.


Praying for wisdom so he can think clearly and not be affected by the words of people that don't come from God and for his heart for compassion and his forgiveness

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Amen!
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Amen!


I pray you heal her heart bring us closer together and give us both the power to forgive each other and live by your example.

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amen


Forgiveness Compassion Perseverance



I pray for your health so we can do more, memory for your happiness, and sense of self, as I love who you are



today's dare is actually easier for me because yesterday my husband finally told me what has been going on with him. and I know exactly what he needs prayer for, and what was causing the struggle for the last year.

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Praise the Lord. what day of the dare were you on?


I pray for my wife everyday and every night. I pray for her to heal from all the mistakes I have made in our marriage and to see that we can start over again and rebuild a stronger bond



great reminder! I fail at daily praying for the love of my life! how sad but true is thst?

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praying for your love of your life is so important keep praying and see what God will do for you.


I pray for her to let the grown children be grown and not try to fix everything in their life while ours fall appear. I pray for peace about her mother and grandmother she lost in a house fire. I pray for her to learn how to love me



it's feels like we are getting backwards, her attitude and behaviour is going back from where she was before, she swear and curse at me. I been praying to the Lord to soften her heart and give her a new heart and a new spirit.

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I will be praying with you


done.



1. the bedroom , 2. communication, 3. and how to deal with stressful situations