15 - Love is honourable
Choose a way to show honor and respect to your spouse that is above your normal routine. It may be holding the door for her. It might be putting his clothes away for him. It may be the way you listen and speak in your communication. Show your mate that he or she is highly esteemed in your eyes.
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I am attempting to honor her time and effort by picking up more work at home. So far I have let her fall behind on "her chores" and not helped her. That is not honourable. A small thing, but I hope she will notice.
Its been challenging day as I now know she wants to test my love for her. Hence I decided to Ask her for a Date
I am ending this challenge now it seems to be making things worse for me I looked back on the challenges I completed and noticed I been coming off like a creepy stalker type and that's not me.
i just want to give up on this dare.... my wife just issued me a cort order for maintanace. my haert is broken as i see all of this unraffel. i will keep on my knees and pray to god for shalvastion
Its getting harder and harder when there seem to be no change. i don't want to quit but its hard dealing with someone who don't even want to talk about saving the marriage.
Husband says he wants to work on us but has developed strong friendship with a girl 17 years younger.He says feelings there.He agreed to end it but always talks to her after a fight, Then told me 2 bad he will be friends with her.She makes him happy
A lot of these I have not been doing because we don't get along like we should but for some reason yesterday I did the dare completely. I still pray about everything and know that God has complete control and can save and fix my marriage.
her back has ben killing her today so i went and got some ointment and a massager.. im trying for our future financially its hard to save but i dont like seeing her in pain...
Our marriage had its problems for awhile. she almost told me she wanted to quit. a couple days later said she would try. she doesn't want any intimacy at all. it's so hard laying next to her.
I posted I couldn't do this challenge but it was for the Day 14 challenge.
i do this every day and it seems not to help. i need prayers please
Her and the kids stayed at her parents last. i stayed home and wrapped all the presents for the kids and i got her some presents as well. she gave me a big hug and thanked me for them. first time weve had physical contact in over 2 weeks
Her and the kids stayed at her parents last. i stayed home and wrapped all the presents for the kids and i got her some presents as well. she gave me a big hug and thanked me for them. first time weve had physical contact in over 2 weeks.
This challange is really hard, i try my best to honor her but all i get is she is sitting hole time on her phone. We can't talk about anything and its going on day by day. I pray that God can turn her hart and life around
I am struggling the last few days/dares. What are some ways you honor your spouse?
Being very tough, he has been away and I have been stressing about him falling into temptation. For today, I repacked his cupboard. I am praying so hard that this is going to save our marriage
i enjoy doing the love dares to spice up my relationship .
Listen to hear, looking to learn, understanding my wife and her feelings daily. Never respond in anger, this are my promise to my beautiful wife, and God! ❤️
Took.her food to work when she really wanted a certain type of food.
Trying to honour my wife daily. She is an incredible woman who made a mistake I'm still struggling to forgive her daily. We recently found God and both are trying to leave the past in the past. God WILL heal our hearts.
So I sent him this text being the fact he has been busy with mowing lawns and getting his business going.
this has been so hard with no success, today God answered a small prayer and I am able to give her a ride to go pick some stuff. this is the most communication we've had since the divorce!
I do this anyway
we are not together in person but in spirit love never fails God knows what he is doing
This hard since we aren't living together. I did text her to check on her because of the weather today. I just wanted her to be safe. I try to give her the space she wants and needs but it's hard for me. I just miss her so much
It's so difficult to do this dare, how can you honor your wife when is start to swear and curse on you, after all the cooking, washing, cleaning and looking after our son, she cannot even acknowledge or appreciate.
brought him breakfast and surprised him today. going to not let my fear and anxiety of all that happened effect our communication today!
done. Shes been feeling under the weather and a bit fussy. I honoured her by listening to what she was actually saying instead of being offended and quick to defend myself or jump into a argument.
Unfortunately, I am tapping out at day 15. been giving it my all. Just can't continue the rejection and the hurt that comes with this. wish you guys the best.
i asked my husband what I could do for this- he told me nothing. It's too late. He doesn't believe our marriage can be fixed. He doesn'y believe we can work through this or that we belong together- after 1 year of marriage.
I agree that it is not hard to hold doors or fold clothes. What is hard is really honoring someone more than yourself. Husbands are called to uplift their wives so they my be free of blemish. Wives are to respect their husbands.
It is not hard to show or do any of it. The hardest part is to have faith and believe that all is not in vain. In God I will trust
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Remember intimacy is more mental than physical. Keep communicating and honoring her that can definitely change. With that being said both of yall through prayer and petition lean on God for the strength to see each others point of views respectfully. Godbless!