I don't think she wants to repair our communication right now, so I am doing this by myself for now. My greatest focus with these rules is to try not to hurt her while in conflict, and to hear and listen.

today I thought would be a good day with my husband but I guess not. i think he decide to drink a bit more usual today. I don't look kebit cause he isn't himself when he drinks so I stay out of his way.

I will try to write down this rules of engagement between her and Me. I will speak to her. Pray that she will be receptive.

dis moeilik. ek is uit die huis geskop my vrou wil niks weet van met my praat of an ons huwelik te werk nie. sy wil net skei dis al in wat sy glo. so ek het n dag boek begin wat ek als in skryf en dan wil ek dit vir haar ge op dag 41

how do I keep doing this when my spouse keeps pushing me away and I am still fairly certain he is entertaining other women? I love him and we are expecting our first child in January

im on day 13.....and im still struggling. i just feel my wife doesnt want me anymore. anything else i can do?

i really don't know how to do it but i am going to try. i love my husband so much, but for some reason he really doesn't know how to show me except when he wants too. its like being on a roller-coaster of emotions.

God's Got This

Tt is a good dare...but I want to wait for a night when he is sober..otherwise it will just be stupid and I will get frustrated

really javing a hard time. My wife and I are separated, dares since day 10 seem to be able to be done if im there or able to talk with her. This is the 4th day in a row I can't complete.

what do i do when he tells me im to emotional butnhis comments hurt to the core.

Does anyone else feel just so disheartened or taken advantage of during this. I feel like I am getting nowhere and my wife has already checked out. jusy using me Prayer just seems to fall on deaf ears. I feel like I'm breaking my own heart.

so my husband was kind of rude n had an attitude towards me today. I did my best to stay calm n not show emotions,

what kind of rules do I need to do I need help

Choose to fight by faith, will never do anything to hurt my wife. Today again told me she will be moving, to clear her head and for her children. I trust God for guidance both for myself and my beautiful wife.. ❤️

I did this and we keep fighting

I asked him if he could talk with me over the phone or after the kids go to bed about doing this and he said I don't know. So I'm in the process of writing them out for myself. On the bright side though he said he did forgive me.

Pretty sure it's over. Just saw my wife's Facebook page and she posted how she isn't someone you find twice. Feeling so defeated.

another day of not hearing from her. I miss her so much. I am.giving her the space she asked for. may have to start this again if she will give us a chance

I thought we might bw making headway yesterday. But today he is back to telling me he iant in love with me and wants a divorce. He ia all over the place. I asked to go to church with him and was told no.Broke my heart

My heart hurts so bad. My husband told me he is not in love with me, and he wants out of our marriage. I've been doing the love dare and it seems to get worse. He has hardened his heart toward me.

Ive decided that Im going to fight fair by controlling my temper and not speaking out of anger or depression. To also listen intentionally to my wife instead of just hearing her. put ego to the side and admit my wrong.

I have established rules for arguments for myself, don't know if they are going to work with this relationship though. She wants a divorce and not even try to fix our marriage.

Husbands set the tone. I almost lost my wife and my kids because I really didn't get that. We really don't fight anymore we disagree. But our rule is simple we are on the same team. God's team.

I can't help but feel like he is always waiting for me to say something wrong so that he can correct me.

Had to wait a day to finish this task, but he set up our Rules of Engagement WITH me!! This has lifted my heart and given me courage to continue this journey!!

i need help with this one.