this one is hard because shes two states away. Im sure theres something i can do but i have to really think.

if anybody is out there i realize this isnt to change your spouse its to change you. I've become so selfish that i forgit to take care her needs. I speak with God everyday 🙏. I hope the outcome is what God

today is our sons 16th birthday and i was going to pay for him a lift but Candise said she would take him for 40 so i decided to give her the 40 dollars and take him so she wouldn't have to get out i love her

Laundry had been "her job," but I have so much time at home there is no reason I couldn't help. I am going to catch it up and keep up with it, because her time is important and this is a way I can show her love, and that I am changing.

We have a fight due to my trust issue on her but i sang a song to her and hopefully she calms down

im starting day 10 tommorow... i have put my haert into the dare everyday so far and all i get is a cold haert from my wife... i have realised today rommans5 that im not alone yesuha dis all the payment for me imbgetting closer to God every day

been on this date for two days. I do all of these items already, including cleaning car sometimes to help him out. any ideas that's not an act of servitude or random snack? I want it to be different and special

On day 10 I washed my husband's truck. I sent him a wedding picture and told him he was my best friend and loved him. He said I made him feel guilty. we talked and he said he wants to leave.i am heartbroken and not sure what to do.

ok so im on day 10 and i do all that stuff anyways. Im trying to figure out what i could do that i dont already do. What am i dupposed to do?

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I feel like my wife is so obsessed with her chickens that it's consuming her and leaving no time for us. What do I need do

Why does he give me a little hope then rip it back? He said he doesn't know if he wants to file. then turns around and sayys hes not happy and doesnt see it changing. What am i doing wrong???

I don't know if I can go any further..so heartbroken..went out with the kids and came home and as usual he was drunk..he's so out of it and I feel like I'm parenting another kid..yelling and arguing.

my dare hasn't been going so well, i took a day break between two dares bc of the holidays and us having a popular house, so im at a cross roads so i continue where i left off or restart the dare? im on dare 10

my dare hasn't been going so well, i took a day break between two dares bc of the holidays and us having a popular house, so im at a cross roads so i continue where i left off or restart the dare?

i dont know whay to do i want to gi e up so bad ha e not talk to my girl in 3 weeks all i want is to hear her voice for Christmas

I had the day off from work... so while she was at work, i cleaned the house, made dinner for the family and took care of laundry. She came home, i greeted her with a smile and happy to see her. she rolled her eyes and blew me off.

My wife said she was meeting with a lawyer and was going to file for divorce. Im staying with my family right now. yesterday i talked with her and she went from 100% going to file for divorce, to saying she doesnt know if shes going to.

I miss the way we used to be. We just seem like two passing ships in the night. My husband went to visit his parents this week. He said he would call but he hasn't. I called him today thinking i would hear from him but he just put it back on me

Things seems to be getting worst, we are arguing about everything. idk how to do anything for him if he is not here and he doesn't care and we don't even text any more.

I'm feeling very discouraged. I'm not with my wife, I have no way to physically do anything for her. I'm trying to trust God and I pray she might believe some of my words in my texts and emails to her. Although she has no reason to believe my words.

my husband came to visit the kids I made his favorite meal and he thanked me. he said he knew he had made a mistake and he wasnt that happy at the other woman house. I pray God will heal is heart and that our family be reunited

Made foto slide, with our song, talking her back on our life journey and telling her, why i've chosen her as my wife. She mentioned appreciation. God, i have faith, please touch the heart of my amazing beautiful wife. ❤️

his the only one who makes money... and he works graves so its hard to do a surprise when his home. he also expects food cleaning extra to be done . so its hard to surprise him

was stuck on this challenge. I did move on to the next challenge. however last night I had an idea. walked to mcDonalds before she started work at 8am, and bought her one of her favorite breakfast, which we eat every other month in the weekend

I've tried that approach she won't do anything with me

well today was a bust I did my part she was unappreciated by it so I don't even know why I even try fighting a losing battle here

I sent her flowers at work w my credit card she doesn't need to know that part but this is something I have never done before. Hopefully it will lift her spirit today as we are separated right now and she has been going through alot.

theres alot I already take care of but I will try and be creative also I will keep checking my motives God help me to serve my family out of love not out of responsibility.

ready for 2days dare God be with me as I am on day 50

So what I wanted to do for him I have to wait until Wednesday. I was going to pay for his business license in secret but it backfired. Now to find something else to do for him even though I take care of everything else.

I've always been slacking in this department, even neglected my own tasks. I started doing things since she told me she wanted to end our marriage. At first to "make up". Now I thoroughly enjoy doing everything for her.

I cleaned up his den and put together his new guitar stand while he was at work then he hung out with his co-workers for an extra 45 mins after work while I was at home trying to get 3 kids to sleep by myself

I've been divorced now for just over 2 years. It wasn't a pretty one...both of us doing plenty to hurt each other...either actively or passively. Neither showing love or concern.

I have no idea how to do this one. I literally do everything already, cook, clean, make coffee, do laundry, put laundry away, do all the shopping, do all the dishes, and take care of our children.

advise please. we're divorced and I don't know how to do this. we don't live together and I don't know how I can do this. she hates me.

worked together and did our complete landscape and cut the grass . together

I was stuck on day 10 for at least a week. Spiritual warfare on this one, but I refused to move to the next task without fully commiting to this. Gods Grace. Amen

sent flowers to her work please pray for a good response. This has been tough but I'm not quitting

She responded in kind to what appeared as a random act of kindness. It was difficult for me to do at first but the response was encouraging

I cleaned the entire yard of dog poop that's been under the snow. mentioned it to her after done and she seemed positive. taking it day by day.

I already do all the housework and even start his car every morning. I do most of the cooking and run all the errands and pay all the bills. I don't know what to do for this dare. help!

things have fallen apart. my wife still wants a divorce and doesn't want to see me. I am dying on the inside

my husband loves old cowboy movies and I hate them. so tonight the grandparents watched the kids and I watched with him. it seems small but I can already tell a difference

Yesterday I took my husband lunch. it was a total surprise for him and I ate with him and watched the beginning of a movie. we really enjoyed ourselves.

Done

So today's dare Im stretching through the weekend. I started by cleaning the bathrooms, and helping her invest in inventory for her side business. Going to clean the backyard without her reminding me and take care of the bills.

Yesterday I felt like giving up then she bought tacos for dinner one of my favorites. I expressed my gratitude but got the silent treatment. She has me confused. continued...

plz tel me what to do?? I'm trying my best to talk to her and it is just negative... im been praying reading... and i can not give up because i love her sow much... and i know my heart is hers

i don't know what to do... I'm trying my best to talk to her and all she does is tel me negative things and how bad it is.... and I'm been praying en being her love and i done everything day by day plz give me n sing???

She told me she loves me and likes me as a person but is not in love with me. She wants time but says she doesn't know when she will be ok.

Have not completed. Racking my brain. I already do so much. HELP!

hard to do since we aren't living together at the moment. but I am on my way to her house to pick up my step daughter to go pick some things up today. thought she deserves a break from the kids so she can be herself today.

What's left to do after I already pay for everything. Rent, food, utilities, everything. And I'm the woman.

She said after a lengthy conversation this evening that the one thing I could do for her is let her go. I hear the anger an the frustration along with the rage in her voice and texts, but part of me wants to believe there is hope

I could really use some help here on this one. We are currently separated and she moved her stuff out. How am I able to do something out of the ordinary for her if she's not around or here?

When you do things out of the ordinary they still don't see that you are trying they be ignoring the signals

Having a hard time coming up with something for this today. Will add this task to tomorrow's, as well.