We had a fight.. My bf is not a christian.. he is a muslim..Every man that is close to me, talk to me or any, he thinks that there is something between us.. its really hard..

Me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 3 years i love him with all my heart and soul. He was married for 18 years and his wife cheated on him they got divorced and now he mentally damaged and i get the end of it.

Day 1 . i have made mistakes in my marriage. have not held sacred my trust with my wife. i need to make amends and im struggling. I get scared and express my feads in very unhealthy manners I need my brother Jesus to help me save my marriage.

Day 1 and watching her pick up our daughter to leave is saddening,its been 8&1/2 months seperation,struggling with patience so all i can do is pray,but the emotional is exhausting when waiting for trust.

Today is my day one. i have been with my bf for 5 years within that time we have had ups and downs. I dont feel like he loves me anymore there is lack of respect , no trust basically no love

husband left me. have had many problems the whole time; alcohol, debt, controlling and callousness, job insecurity, and much more. I've spent time wondering what God wants from me. Decided to not give up. im working to be a better wife and christian

This is such a valuable exercise, I really want to encourage everyone to keep going. I have done it a few times in the past and by day 20 our marriage is transformed. Having the app is so useful for sharing this with others, thank you!

i need some help so me ans my husband have been togtherger for 5 years and i am prengeant with our first and i feel like im failing ecerythjng in like and i lkvr him and our baby it just scarse me becuse ichave beeb in a bad realasoin ship befkr

this is day one for me me and my boyfriend have had many ups and downs since weve been together ive been trying to make it work but because of my past relationships im what some might say mentally damaged but im wanting this to work out with us

my best friend id the ove of my life. hes changing on me. his mom is helping me to be stromger and him to see what hes bmessed with

i am on day one. i messed up and said i didnt love her anymore. she said she lost all love she had for me then and i have to move out.

This very hard I'm doing everything I can to save my marriage but my husband's parents keep tryi g to push me out of the picture and I get so angry.

i have watched this movie several times but now i watch as a newly married women and i want to make my marriage as strong and fireproof as posible espesilly since he has a demanding job

im just starting this after watching the movie while my spouse was sleeping they give there all and i reliesed im a complete ahole to them so here goes to doing better not just for my marriege but for my self

My wife wants a divorce and is done with our marrige cause i keep accusing of her of hiding stuff from. Also she told her mom shes upset because I keep accusing her and keep bring up the cheating part.

This is my day one, but had a chance to watch fireproof with my dear one. along with prayers theough jesus christ. we both hope foe the best in the end

the hardest part is not letting frustration build and say something hurtful when being accused of things i didnt do

Today is day one and I'm praying that this love dare challenge along with the movie Fireproof will help us overcome what we are dealing with

not saying hurtful things is a day to day kind of thing for me. i have noticed that my hurtful words come out as a response to his word choice. remembering that I cannot control his words, but that i can control mine is difficult most days.

my husband cheated on me for a few years and they have a two year old baby. I'm in the process of forgiving coz I have not fully forgiven him. I pray things go back to the way they were before all of this.

In anger I have said so many hurtfull things, so much so that she has left me, but she says she still loves me,but I have this insane anxiety and feeling that she will not come back.

A very good friend of mine introduced me here, its day one and i love it. i hope to follow to the end and watch the transformation

My mouth causes me A LOT of problems in our marriage. I don't mean that its my words but more of my facial expressions. A lot of the time I don't know how to communicate and that causes problems in itself.

2nd try- stopped@day 18 before. Sex is constant fight every 4 months. Admit I could be more well-rounded. But would like sex with wife more than 1x/mo. Hope to reach a pt when sex doesnt have such a grip on me. Maybe will become indifferent

I am begining this again. Things have been difficult in many ways. Lord be with me today, help me to be patient, to hold my words if they are harsh. If I must speak, let it be your words of and not the words of my pain.

my wife sexted several men the other day i we had been fighting for a while and i had been nagging i work 2 jobs and i just wanted her to do laundry and make sure house was tidy when i came home since i make dinner as well

Today is Day 1 for me. I love the movie, and a couple of weeks ago, my husband said he want things to change, and that means a divorce. Today after watching the movie, I figured I'd give the Love Dare a wholehearted try.

Patient. Like not saying negative things seems even harder when I am not allowed to give my opinion on things thats about myself

the only way to be patient today was to wait for a text. a quick hello this morning and now its 6pm. the no contact rule is painful.

My wife is amazing and i love her in every way. But we are in a bad way through lack of communication and family issues, on both sides but obviously I take responsibility for my side. I'm up for the dare.

im doing this for the first time, whatched Fireproof... jusy trying to figure out how to do this when we live in separate houses for the past 4 month's

Today is day one of this challenge for me. Over the last 2 years my husband and I have been through a lot. We've physically been seperated and lived in seperate houses twice. I'm hoping that taking this leap of faith truly helps our relationship.

this is day one for me and dont want to lose everything because im stupid

i am just starting this today i hope and pray it brings a more beautiful relationship.

I just want to say this is my 2nd time doing this. Been 2 years and its been wonderful. i think i want to start helping other.

I came from a dysfubctional family. I realise that i need help....i want to implement these principles in ecery rwlationship i have in my home.....im the one thar puts people down amd criticises rhem....i need to change

Well today starts day one. earlier this week my husband told me he was done. He talked about things that happened 8 years ago that he feels i didnt handle well and still holding onto that resentment.

trying to keep attitude and temper in check trying to save thjs relationship

i get angry and frustrated at my husband when i wish he did more for me i wish he cared more showed more affection and effort but i always feel like no matter what i do and say i am always the one who puts the most effort in.

My husband got upset about what I wore. I admitted it wasn’t appropriate and apologized, but he kept bringing it up. Frustrated, I told him that was enough and left the room to prevent the argument from escalating.

the morning hasn't started out great. he got mad at me for buying whole bean coffee instead of ground so I told him to stop being a jerk. we'll see how the rest of the day goes

I’ve made many mistakes in my life and ended up sinking because of them. But I truly want a transformed life that reflects Christ. Is it still possible to start over?

i have just started the challenge, its been rough year but overroll 4 years of mostly sad and hurtful moments and we almost seperated, although greatful that he still wants to try the silent cold on and off isnt easy

Today my first day. Its been ruff. I caught my wife with other man last in drive way. I said nothing and held it back. crazy thing is i still love my wife and i going try this and finsh it in hope of saving my marrige

I made mistakes in my life....and i do regret them, im trying my utmost best to be a better person. Unfortunately my partner cinstantly remind me about my mistakes, althought i dont forget them. BROKEN

Almost 12 yrs together. he said his mind is checked out of the relationship , but his heart doesnt want to just give up. does this mean there is still some hope? or is it that he dont want to disrupt the kids lives?

i am of tired of doing so the giving and being walked all over.

today was day 7 he is gone. i felt so lost. But I am holding strong to Gods promise. i am going to complete this dare. And we will overcome. God has this because with him all things are possible

love is hard to show when we are angry but I've come to find out the love is not a feeling or an emotion but it's a decision so I choose today to love my husband regardless and what kind of attitude he might have towards my son

. ONLY SELFISH LOVE OF OUR OWN LRIDE AND EGO from our past and the pain we have endured or fear meeting again STOPS US. from truly finding The way to LOVE OURSELVES AND OTHERS AS THE LORD LOVES US & INTENDED FOR US TO LOVE EACH OTHER THE SAME

love will never be possible and the lies we wrap up the hate we give that is called love will just keep on keeping on. hate not hate begot hate folks..WE NEVER LEARN LOVE UNTIL what's been told is made FULL in the fulfillment of THE WORD ITSELF

HUMILITY involves letting go of our old beliefs and practices. THIS IS WHAT is meant by " dying for the Lord" this in time gaining life eternal..

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Married 17years. My husband is very negative. Addicted to porn. I'm at breaking point. He doesn't kiss or hold me. He doesn't care about hygiene. I'm not good enough so lonely. I try to stay positive I can't anymore. Not faithful anymore.

My husband of 16 years is looking at a place tomorrow. I lied 8 years ago, stupidly thinking it would save our marriage. Now he is leaving and we will eventually divorce. I have been a terrible wife and this is all my fault but, I am devastated.

This is my Day 1. I've been feeling disconnected for a while from my husband. I've also been struggling with mental health issues of which he doesn't understand the full extent. I feel like I'm failing as a wife

This is my day 1... It is a difficult one because my husband lied about his whereabouts last night and he is currently working in another town.Jesus has never let me down and I know He is the only one able to save this marriage.

15 and a half years of marriage, we are a blended family and our 24 year old just moved out. I feel a world away from my husband.

I have decided that since my hubby and I are feeling worlds apart i need some help getting us back on track and with a spark again. i came across this app and going to give it a try.

I started this over a month ago...restarting as i have resentment towards my husband. He has physical pain and is on pain meds and drinks which is not okay but he continues to justify. This has been a struggle our entiee marriage of 32 years.

Neurodivergent relationship of 21 years here.... not sure how much longer I can take. Decided to give this a shot.

hi all would this help me to have a closer relationship with my wife and love her the way that she needs to be loved

Day 1-No communication today Thursday, May 2, 2024. Marriage counseling yesterday Wednesday, May 1st 2024, so much anger toward HUSBAND and MARRIAGE THERAPIST. accused me having affair while at mom's funeral.

she left our daughter at my mom for a second night of the 5 she gets her. letting my mind worder what she will be doing in her free time.

been going thru a ball of emotions made a mistake by not listening to her needs and then said some things on purpose i knew would upset her now shes so distant

we broke up almost a month ago after 5 yrs. i have been turning to God and i see tiny improvements but nothing to really get excited about yet

i wish i started this before my divorce was final. but i am hopeful that with GOD'S help we can fix what was broken.

Starting this tomorrow.

My husband and I had an argument Thursday Apr 11. he had to leave out. He turned Life 360 off. just a few short texts since he left. I asked 2 days ago if we are okay. Him "I don’t know. We will talk when I do get home"

starting this tomorrow, trusting in God

i lied about money to keep him from getting mad. racked up lots of debt to pay bills so he could buy stuff thinking we had money and would be happy. we have been married 28 years

My partner gave up on us.

Prayers needed as i often miscommunicte or dont communicate at all. it has caused my wife to resent me.

really looking forward to starting this tomorrow

He wants a divorce. I don't. Tonight he sent me an email with his "negotiations". I simply replied that since I haven't agreed to the divorce, I didn't think it was wise to respond to any negotiations. That upset him.

He wants a divorce. I don't. Tonight he sent me an email with his "negotiations". I simply replied that since I haven't agreed to the divorce, I didn't think it was wise to respond to any negotiations. That upset him. 😞

I caught my boyfriend sexting today and I had a guy feeling it was going on- he swears he loves me and didn't mean anything by it but that he was bored and that I have been ignoring him

Currently working on our marriage by God's grace. My husband cheated on me with his workmate and we have no one else to run to but God.

I really need prayers. I have said so much to my wife for the past 3 years we have been together. She says she is so broken and yesterday she told me she wants separation. Today is my first day of the dare.

trying to be patient I know he is talking to others again, asked him about it he denied it. im trying to be understanding and not loose my temper. pray for my family please we need it

and what if I'm really the narcissist... will this be able to save my marriage?

I don't need any comments. Any time negative energy comes up I will refrain from it toward anyone. And I would encourage others to do the same. think before saying and own if you said something you shouldn't.

I think the hard part of this challenge is not saying anything when their decisions effects others around in a negative way. My husband has a structured routine life where he needs things to be organised and quiet to keep him happy.

15 years married and my wife is done. We sleep in different bedrooms and last night she said she was done for real this time after multiple threats in the past.

I've been struggling being patient in my relationship can I struggle with believing that my boyfriend does love me and I am worthy of love.

i have a really bad issue with gettong hot headed (which I have gotten much better at) but I also have a issue with using very judgemental.words and filthy language towards other people...

I told Britt which is gf who is currently in jail for a year I couldn't do this anymore but I lied I love her she doesn't realize how hard it is not having her here with me or the crap I'm having to deal with it

not able to do this everyday. after me saying to her during the argument stupid f_cking b_tch she told me to leave. she is done.we have been together for almost 5 years i love this woman more than anything.i don't want to lose her!

My husband has used porn and dating sites. it has broken my heart and spirit. even had a woman send the police to our house for a welfare check when he changed his number. i dont know how to rebuild trust.

He was served court papers over a loan we both decided to get only get in his name. Words unraveled. we have been married almost 3 years. I'm doing the love dare today because i want to be the hooe and change i want to see in the world!

I'm afraid it's too late. We've been married less than a month but the hurt and anger has been building for way longer. I've been on this same dare for over a week now.

today was better did not say anything bad to him...we spent the evening watching tv with our dog on the couch...no fighting

I wanted to tell him how unhappy I have been but l don't think we are in a place where that would be beneficial ot yet. I don't think we are ready to have a conversation without a fight.

Yesterday was better i got frustrated and angry with some of the things he said and didn't do but I did not say anything.

Today was bad. I hurt him in the past so his Anger is understandable. I just hope he and God will forgive me.

This didnt go so well. My wife, who moved out said she wants me to stop pushing her. Thats after I tried to show concern as she is going for an operation. I said im sorry, pse forgive me, and didnt defend myself. Thats day 1 then. Praise God!

Been married since 2014 and here to help my marriage become better by reshaping it all to help it to be better. I'm hoping to have a positive marriage where Jesus can be part with working in our marriage.

Used money from our shared bond to help cover our expenses, without telling my wife. I'll start the love dare, even if remotely.

Starting this today. 20 years married..but we live like roommates. I feel I am critical and expect too much and am always dissappointed. I feel unloved, unimportant and taken for granted. We get mean when we argue.

Well I allowed my gas on E get the best of me before the sun came up..So Thank God I can start over. I've done it a few times as well so Why did i get upset. it's crazy right! This wil not help us grow closer. That's My Heart Desire.

I'm just a 33 year old contractor who's losing everything he has because I couldn't let go and forgive 3 years ago she's gone and I want her back I want my wife my best friend back so I'm going to give this the best I got

I am a combat veteran suffering from PTSD and she felt since I lost my job and was told I couldn't work again because of my mental health that she is fine being a care giver to me

I received a punch to the gut the other day when she told me that she no longer loves me, we are christians and divorce is not in our beliefs or vocabulary at all, I am lost.

Ive been away for training. I was able to go home this past weekend . We were very distant over the weekend because of me not being communicative. I just want her to feel appreciated and loved. I dont know how to do this full time.

I think I'm having trouble connecting with my wife. I'm not a good listener and at times comes up as disrespectful and rude

I need help with reconnecting with my wife and learn to showing emotions and be more affectionate. I want to show her how much I love her everyday. I lost my way do to multiple surgery and she has suffered from because of it.

I am not married yet, I'm just looking for ways to put God in the middle of my relationship early on. I'm trying to build a good foundation. I'm open to any suggestions.

I am in love with a man tat cheats on me all the time. I know he does and people have confirmed it. He also talks very disrespectful of me behind my back. I'm going to do this love dare with faith and I pray that it will make a difference.

My husband doesn't think our marriage needs work nor does he see how much I'm struggling but I'm hoping that if I do these acts towards him, he'll see that we need improvement

I will restart this. this time knowing Christ Loves is within me

pary for my marigge we need moore love between us we need Jeesus to heel us and my marigge pray that my husbend will be free in Jeeus name of beer I will sart tomorrow pray that jeesus will give me the power i need thank you

I haven't been able to show my appreciation to my wife and I have done very bad things to her. Now I wanted to make things right eventhough it is already too late. Her trust on me had already been broken. I hope that I can fix this

I decided to start this because love is selfless, I just pray I can be that selfless

Please pray for my marriage. My wife fell in love with someone else. Please pray that this demonic spirit pulling her away from me, will be breaked in Jesus Name!!!

starting this. anyone who sees this please pray. I have screwed up so many way and so many times

been married five years to an amazing woman whom i love deeply and dearly however our marriageis failing so im hoping that this can help me save my marriage she says she desnt know what she wats

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Today i have breaken my loves heart ao badly by my actions that I do not deserve her anymore. I have broken her heart in so many peaces that I dont think i will be able to but al back again. I am trying this dare not just but to heal her heart

I have done this once. I am attempting round 2 for the 3rd time now. I feel like I keep messing up. I am starting to believe it's because I should finally accept the facts and walk away.

And if you're right, there's no sense in arguing with somebody for them to see your way. You know you're right, God knows you're right? Say one time and leave it alone

Attempting this lovedare for a second time.... My husband is very hard and harsh towards me, breaking me down and extremely controlling, but I'm trusting God for change especially for the sake of our beautiful children!

i th0ink i have been doing this one for a long time. i wanna do my best howevwr it is so hard to me to be a good spouse, i never cheated or anything but i am so cold and uninteresed

I'm not sure what I'm doing, I do know that I love her and I want to try, but I also feel she doesn't. that maybe she is playing my feelings to keep me close. I may need some prayer, but I'll try this dare. maybe she will take the leap after I do.

i am finding my tongue can be so sharp. I do wonder if its a lack of trust in God, that He can vindicate me and therefore I dont need to argue my viewpoints, but rather trust that He will make my path straight.

starting love dear to day God help me please

I ve been with my SO for 6 months. This one has been super hard on me.

I have been married for 7 weeks now and my husband wants a divorce. One day he says he is willing to work on our marriage and the next day he says that he wants a divorce amd feels family is the problem

Starting today, almost 20 years married Last night he put a recycle bin that the cats pooped in on the dining room table where i do my bible study, so here we are! I'm tired and feeling defeated, but LOVE 🏆 WINS, right?

ive been in many failed relationships, ive met someone that makes me feel safe and whole but for some reason weve began to bicker constantly. we can no longer communicate at all and it was our strongest atribute as a couple.

My SO and I fight a lot. Our humor has taken a more pointed, harsh turn. I am starting this today to relearn how to love him with God's loved instead of my flawed version. High hopes that this will heal and strengthen our relationship.

my wife found a place to live and can move out on the 5th... she says she wants to live apart, i cant handle being away from her. today i start the love dare

Starting today. Married for 15 years. Lots of tough issues. I stopped showing love. My love became conditional to his actions.God, please help me. I don't want to get a divorce, but I'm afraid that's where we're headed.

10 years of marriage. just fighting all the time. No communication between us. we live in the same house but we dont live together. Hope this works.

Starting this dare tomorrow. We get mean when we argue.

Losing my wife and it hurts me

I had cheated on my husband I want to save my marriage we've been married for a year and we have no communication at all and all he does is he keeps bringing it up that I cheated please help

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Starting this dare today on my husband. Married 19 years. It gets hard. Very hard. He has demons I can't compete with. My attitude towards him is reflecting this. I know God is working in our marriage. I pray He uses this tool to bring us together.

Marriage of 14 years . The biggest issue is my communication in how i talk to my wife taking out other flustratuons on her. recently talked and she verified she has pulled away. I had no negative issues today. Im up in nerves i was nauseous all day.

just need your help. i have a violent wife of whom we have stayed together for 2yrs now and we have one kid. need your advice

I'm doing this in hopes that it will change my attitude and temperament. Today, when I tried to hold my wifes hand, she pulled away.

my husband and I are newly weds, people call us the most beautiful couple in Kentucky. we got married October 1st. we have a wonderful marriage but we want to do Love Dare early in our marriage

Initiated this today after discovering that my wife has been unfaithful to me for the second time. I'm hoping this will aid me in finding the strength to forgive her and rebuild trust.

day 1 dare 1 failed. my thoughts have really been affecting me lately making me question my relationship of 16 yrs. struggling more now that ive begun praying more often. im hopeful that this will help me give my husband a better version of myself

I'm trying this because I have tried everything else and nothing has worked and I'm to the point where I just want a divorce and ready to give up.

my husband keeps pictures of naked woman in his phone. is been a issue since we started dating, i told him how this makes my self worth feel and he said he is a man and doing this is normal

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last night I attended task one.On the weekend I told her that I had started vaping. Last night we had a discussion about it. She told me that she does not like it and that I must not even try to kiss her for as long as im vaping.

I have let the enemy come in and fill my mind with garbage. I've let go of my deliverance. I'm taking it back and with the help of The Love Dare and relying solely on God for support. Please pray!

started this today. i hurt and she does. she wants a divorce but willing to give this 1 last try and see how the holidays go. she has stated a few days ago she doesn't love me. but today she said she didnt know. i just hope its not too late.

just need prayer. i am starting this because for a very long time I have not been the godly husband i am called out to be..I have sat back and watched my wife try to be the leader i am called out to be..

trying to reconcile with my 2sd husband that divorced me 6 years ago feel love for him but right now, we live apart n i rarely hear from him. Just feel lonely n unloved.

I am 24 years married and have struggled most of that time to love my wife. I realized last night that I gave up on trying years ago. Love is a choice, not a feeling. I have the power to choose either to love her or to push her away.

Depression has fed its way into my heart and is effecting my family. My husband is patient and kind and works every day knowing on himself. I am here to be a better wife and mother. Thank you for your prayers. I pray for all you as well.

the house is falling apart and I need his help because I physically can't do what needs to be done and I can't afford to pay someone to do it we don't have that type of money we are already struggling

The bf (nonbeliever), My 9 yr old daughter (heavy believer w/ paternal trauma), and my bf's 8 yr old daughter (believer with maternal trauma). We don't live with my boyfriend so I have a feeling I'll be addressing each individual at a separate pace!

I have resolved to remind myself that God equips those that He has called. He has called us to stand up and fight. Be strong in the Lord and take courage my fellow pilgrims!

my wife cheated after 6nyears of marriage and im the one doing the love dare to win her back or at least show her that im willing to do whatever it takes to fix our marriage

starting tomorrow to give this marriage its best shot since i seem to be the only one invested. hope that changes for all us and for my 4 kids sakes.

Lord I don't know what to do and say it's like he doesn't understand the new growing me

at my parents house iv messed up big time my wife has not talked to me in 7 days I call no answer. I did not cheat but I painted a picture of myself in a negative light

On the couch with our sleeping baby, trying the Love Dare to save our marriage. Toxic friends tore us apart. Hoping for a miracle in these 40 days.

I'm blessed to have a good relationship with my husband but I want to see how much better we can be by doing it. This app is a short version. For the full one, watch the movie Fireproof and buy the book The Love Dare. May God bless us all!

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well I will just be starting tomorrow instead of today. That's how well this day went. I'm married to a functional alcoholic and i find it hard to bite my tongue when he starts ranting about something.

what do u do if ypur boyfriend is communicating with ither girl and telling u they are just fans but he calls them babe

in the morning it started a little rough I did not say anything negative to my wife she still was a little heated talked on the phone wile at work. but came home from work early get home she have calmed a little she talk and im listing to her and no

Today is day 1 of trying to repair my broken marriage. By putting God back into our marriage, I have faith we can over come this hit!

I mess everything up in my marriage I'm always the one quick to yell.this is my day 1.I'm ready to work a change in me

God can show us how to communicafe with our partners effectively.

we started it and day 3 is already showing us results..

how do you do the love dare when. your separated in different homes?

He got upset I left stuff out on the counter.I said that he was the1to leave the creamer out bcuz I put it away earlier&I got upset that he thought I was lying even tho I wasn't, a little later we both said sorry4getting mad@each other

im starting today with the love dare, hopefully it will work for my relationship. for the last 3 years me and my wife is living a living hell and cant stand eachother. only good we could talk is if we talk about our company.

I am so very ashamed of the things I say when we fight .she is the only human that can make me that mad .it's like she doesn't care about me at all but that is still no excuse for my actions I love her more than the world

My husband of 13 years has cheated on me for the last 8 months. He had 2 children when we met and we have 1 together. The trust is just not there right now. He works with the other woman and she too is married.

Sometimes when angered, I say things that I dont mean and ill regret it later on saying it. It takes patience to really bite my tongue when angered.

my husband and i are going through a trying time. there has been so much that is trying to destroy us. we both decided to try this challenge in hopes of saving our marriage and making it stronger.

I tried to be patient and listen the angrier I got till I was yelling about a situation that arose because of a prior misunderstanding tomorrow I will start again same spot and I forget people heal in there own time

So me and my fiance got back together after 5 months of being apart. And lately I've been feeling like he doesn't love me the same anymore and I hate feeling like this cause all it's doing is causing more problems when I ask him about it.

my wife isnt sure if she wants to remain married after 12 years and 4 beautiful kids. i am far from perfect and my mistake was following those seductive accounts on tiktok

Me & my boyfriend had a argument this morning. I wish his communication was better. He sometimes wakes up annoyed & can be rude no explanation. Wont ever talk about it expects me to fix us everytime. It is hard to fix with bad communication skills.

Day 1.. after a 9 year relationship i began the journey of dating . we are 3 months in and i am not sure if this is even something to do being in a relationship so new, but it is worth a shot.

my fiance says he loves me but wants me to change. I thought love ment acceptance and compassion for the other flaws. now I just feel like I'm not worth it cause I'm not how he likes... I'm so lost on what to do cause I do love him.

my husband and i going through rough patch.

my husband and i going through rough patch

My wife and i are not doing good. Wife said i cheated on her cause i looked at porn. She caught me doing it again she would say that she was leaving. Now shes mad cause i said I was done and wouldnt fight dor our marriage.

thanks God we are good to go

I recently cheated on my wife and hurt her emotionally and spirituality by letting the other person due harm to her. I want to fix things with her but she says she hurts to much to try again. She's forgiven me. How do i ask for forgiveness from god.

Any ideas on how to start day 1 when there isnt any form of communication?

After my husband abandoning me and our son for three years we and I are fighting over his past mistake as we try to reconcile.Now hw doesnt want to talk to me. what should I do

after a 20yr marriage we decided to "open" our marriage too other people. it has been disasterious before anything even happened

I've been cheating on my wife for the last 5 years. I don't know if I can break up, and start a new life. If she knows about it, she will start a divorce process but I love her in a special way...

my husband and i used drugs together and damaged our marriage . he has left and wats a divorce

I messed up bad, now I'm trying to regain the only woman I love trust and heart back

6 years we've been here. It's always been stressful espically our marriage. I'm just hoping doing this is and letting God take charge is going bring our marriage back to where it used to be.

I cheated on my husband and lied to him about it and also afterwards lied about communicating with the other party. He has now told me he does not want anything to do with me. I have prayed to God to forgive me, and to work on both.

I cheated on my husband and lied to him about it and also afterwards lied about communicating with the other party. He has now told me he does not want anything to do with me. I have prayed to God to forgive me, and to work on both

i always find myyself having negative thoughts after my husband cheated he apologised bt i still find it hard to forgive him he is doing everything to make thimgs right i abuse him everyday i pray all this can stop

husband had an affair but wants to save the family. I was too broken so I had difficulty trusting him. Recently, I can see that he got tired in making efforts. he's too ashamed to make any moves because of what he did repeatedly

Day 1: Today is really a blessed day for me that for a very long time, I called my husband and he responded so lovingly to me, without a shout or quarrel. All I want is peace. every other thing shall be added to us by God. @Queen.

Day 1: Today is really a blessed day for me that for a very long time, I called my husband and he responded so lovingly to me, without a shout or quarrel. All I want is peace. every other thing shall be added to us by God. Queen.

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my Day 1: I called my husband and he responded to me without any harsh question. he answered me without a shout, woow.. God be praise.

Hope this goes through! Through this God saved my marriage. I kept a journal you should also. Write down verse and dare. Write down what you did and if you pray write it down also. Focus on God and yourself and the love he gives you.

Day 1 was great! We are both so excited to finally get to do The Love Dare, we've been planning on doin it for a long time.

12years together. 4 years married. 2 beautiful kids. we've had it all, and we've lost it all. the past year has been the hardest. my husband cheated on me with my BEST FRIEND. left our family in December to go stay with her.

Day 1 was going good until near the end. I said something that was a little sarcastic and questioning. Are there do-overs if we mess up?

Today is my day 1 and i just pray i can keep mouth shut and not retaliate.

This is so hard. he seems to think that every time I open my mouth and ask a question or make a statement that I am judging him or attacking him and he instantly goes into defense mode and we fight. ugh when did I become the bad guy all the time?

10 years, 7 years married. every year around the same month something always happens. i am no longer in love with my husband but he says he loves me but shows nothing or does not even prove it. i want the divorce

well i screw up i luv my wife even though she tells me she not attracted to me anything

Day 1 - This is very difficult since each time we have a conversation, we get into an argument. I just pray that I can keep my mouth shut when feeling pressed.

Day 1- currently separated but have had some deep discussions and are committing to work this out. With God all thing are possible!

this is beyond hard. i want my marriage, but there is no passion in my marriage. obviously it IS love that is keeping us together but is that love between a husband and wife or love of friends and companions.

starting this again. biggest challenge is shutting up. we push each other to explosions with every argument. pray that I can shut up this time.

my wife made me relize its me causing all of are troubles. i have quit listening to her feelings and thoughts ive got a porn addiction and i have let temptation in my life way to much i want to change

my wife feel out of love with me 😪 what can I do?

my husband hates me

This is really a hard one, especially when my husband keeps trying to fight the whole time

im apart from my wife for a month and now see change in her. i didnt leave her cause i wanted too i was forced to be seperated and at times felt no hope but i love her and will try again and pray gods will over our life

giving this a go in the hope to save my marriage

I can definitely see a change in dynamic when I choose to speak kind words to my spouse.

I wish I had come across this book sooner. I pushed my husband away and fought with constantly to the point of him doing things to win my approval and satisfaction and he sits in jail because of it but I know things will change now.

even with all the positive words, my babe, that's what I call her, hasn't read any of my chats nor has she replied it for two days now.

i spent one night away from my wife and i realize that i love her and dont want to hurt her anymore.

i spent one night away from my wife and i realize that i love her and dont want to hurt her anymore

this is a tough one for me

First day I have but all destroyed the best thing that ever happened to me I hope this book helps me to love her like i should and maybe learn to love myself Been divorced 5 times I dont think i can handle another one Please pray for us

my husband and i have agreed to do this starting 2 days ago... we will see because it seems thats the only thing we can agree on lately

seperated...he keeps going with emotional abuse cycle. Hes basically said he's walked away from God the last month and he's focusing on self love. I'm commiting to let Jesus love through me whatever the outcome..

starting today. after numerous fights over big life changes and i have to admit i havent been the kindest. it was lead to alot of resentment between us. hoping this will help us instill better habits

Hello I am a beginner. My first husband was abusive and after 21 years I left him. My husband, now, and I have been together 8 years, married for 1. I have been finding myself starting to fall out of love with him. Praying

Amen

I'm starting this challenge April 11th. My fiancée and I have been together almost 7 yrs and lately its been tough. Ive even considered calling off the wedding. He has severe ptsd and seems angry at the world all the time.

Restarting this challenge from many years ago. Hopefully, I can do it remotely

This challenge is not only to safe my marriage but also Jesus to show me what is love and how to love completely. Jesus in your mighty name i give myself to you . Show me what is unconditional love ❤️

This is my first time, praying that it work's 🙏

Today I am starting this challenge AGAIN, My husband cheated on me over 20 years ago and we haven't been strong since, and that caused me to cheat a year ago. I want my marriage and I am beyond SORRY.... I NEED THIS TO WORK!!!

i told my wife who i hurt and caused so much pain that i loved her and she said thats its going to take time for her. i told her that i know its going to take time just know that im here for u. always

yes love is patient, but when u don't have patience, but u r learning slowly how to get patience it sucks cuz u r in patient trying to get patience so u can love to the fullest

I got fustrated with my husband because I need help. I don't want to always ask for help. i haven't said anything negative today. i have had to pray a lot to hold my tounge.

guess ill have to start again tomorrow bc i ask my wife why kept asking me all these questions bc i told her idk and she keeps asking and i got aggravated with her bc idk and shes just rewording the questions.

Trying this again. I love my husband but I just can't seem to get through this challenge.

18 months ago i almost died of covid. I was in a coma for 2 months. I was in the hospital for over 5 1/2 months. He has deep depression but won't do anything about it. I am starting this with God's help to try to get my man back.

me and my hubby been dealing with a lot and I been so emotional cause of it and I feel like I am pushing him away

please pray!!! I asked my boyfriend to do the challenge with me and he said he would never be able to do it. So I'm still going to do this. Hes an ex from 9 years ago. and things just ain't the same.

letting go of anger is hard. I pray God can fill my heart with love. 3rd day in a row starting at day 1. i just cant seem to be nice.

Started Day 1 yesterday as my wife and I are so busy so doing this to reconnect with her and be the husband God called me to be!

recently learned by husband cheated with a colleague for nearly 3 years... We've been together for 25 years but only married for 5... Im starting this tomorrow 24 March 2023 and pray this will help mend our broken hearts & repair our marriage.

I've started this many times and have always gotten frustrated and not followed through. Starting again today as I owe it to my wife.

I ignored her cries and pleas forbyears for me to change, quit making her feel loney and unwanted. I thought i was doing nothing wrong, and God proved me wrong. Im putting all my trust into God, hes the only one that can mend this

hopefully tomorrow is better I'm trying yet this will be the 4th time starting over. this man knows how to get my blood boiling and yet I'm letting him. maybe tomorrow will be the day!

my biggest problem is trustin the people around my wife.and then takin my anger out on her.thinkin it will fix our relationship.

I'm tired of promising to pursue her, then becoming apethetic. She's heard it all before. It's time to take action without promising her anything. She'll be shown how much I love her and not just hear about it.

Trying this again after years of struggling. Hoping God works in me and changes me through this and that my wife and children will see the evidence.

I really love the woman I am with. She is my true soul mate. I want to show her love and compassion everyday. I pray God will direct me and was the anger I speak. She really does deserve tenderness and love.

I really love the woman I am with. She is my true soul mate. I want to show her love and compassion everyday. I pray God will direct me and was the anger I speak. She really does deserve tenderness and love

Start today, widow and learning to date again.Wanting a stable ground to start fresh.Tired of ghosted behavior of next generation. 😀

Today I tried dare #1 again, because i felt i had failed it, and i passes. I'm using this in my relationship and at work with my coworkers. I did great.

I am in a new relationship with an old dating partner from 8 years ago. I was going through a divorce and he wanted to marry right away, but i needed time to process everything. This time is different we've both grown. I have boundaries now.

Love is patient, but not all the time. i get so frustrated when i cant voice my opinions or feelings w/o being judged and told they are wrong. I will continue to pray on it to see if its salvageable 🤞#day1

Me and my ex husband have been separated for 3 years divorced since November, after finding myself I'm hopeful that I'll get him back!!

I am trying this discretly with my wife. We havent had issues per se but I feel as though most days we just go through the motions. I want to be intentional with my actions and words.

I'm starting this over for the 3rd time. My wife and I have been separated for a few years. I get discouraged and have little hope.

I'm starting this over for the 3rd time. My wife and I have been separated for a few years. I get discouraged and have little hope. I've already failed today for day one.

doing this as a single person I still thi k it be edifying

I am really struggling with my husband right now I feel like he uses The Bible against me as a weapon instead of teaching me. He tells me I'm wrong for how I feel.

congratulations! stay strong!

We have no marriage. We have no foundation. But i am confident that We have a God who would have us create one through Him. We have hit rock bottom. I need to surrender my husband to Jesus to let Jesus do what only He can do.

i want to complete this dare with not only my husband but my children and colleagues. here is to hoping my heart can change for the greater good God has envisioned for us

Sometimes there are more than one "Day 1's".

day one was successful

first day doing love dare. preying it saves our marriage cuz I really do love my wife . I'm also preying for our family .

I am Hopeful this can work, watched the movie fireproof. I love my wife even Day 1 is hard all we do is fight over money and cleaning wish me luck

I repeat this at random once a year as does my Spouse.We never telk each other when we arw doing it and we only disclose when we conolete the whole program. I honestly belive this saved our marriage.

I'm doing this in a healthy marriage, my best friend who is dearly struggling with a spouse who is as close to cold as ice. She feels so unloved, I'm getting christian married couples with decades under their belt as advisors for them.

i have attempted this too many times to count in the past 2 years and dare 27 is as far as ive ever gotten ....today i completed dare 1 again ..but this time i did it without trying to just do the dare...i feel something in m changing

i did this 12 years ago and thought it would work then. Renewed our vows in 2016, things were terrible,, he lied through 18 years of being together, he cheated 13 times. Lied about smoking, lied about things that were important to me.

I have been on this day for a few days now. I didn't think it would be this hard. I love my husband and want us to be successful. I will get through this with God on my side. please pray for me and my journey. 🙏

Today is day one and I am on the journey to rebuild the trust lost in our relationship. We don't argue but silence is just as bad sometimes. I am committed to making this work because she is my future.

Finally ive been on this step for 4 days and i completed it only with God by my side not inly completed it but had a enlightening day.

Please pray. He is the love of my life but this last year has drug us so far apart. I asked him to do this journey of the 40 day challenge with me. He brought home divorce paper. With prayers and gods guidance we can make it work. Tomorrow is day 1

choose every words wisely. it sshouldnt be this hard. biting your tongue is humbling. this makes me realize the love that i have for my partner and how horrible i am at showing it minute to minute. Lord please gude my word and action today,

Been on this step for three days i cant do it alone God help me please im powerless without you.

I feel so lost its not even like were the same people anymore i dont know her its come to the point were two complete strangers is there hope?

When I did the Love Dare for the first time, it changed my behavior, attitude, & marriage. I'm starting again in the hopes of further growth in moving towards becoming a Proverbs 31 wife.

Today it was great.my spouse in my talk and actually heard each other. I feel like. Accepting that we need God back in our life's has made a huge impact already

Just getting started for the first time. praying for total and complete restoration

I've been tempted to criticize him, and have succeeded in keeping silent about half the times.... We haven't argued today and it's sunset. Praying that I'm able to get up early tomorrow to pray and keep my patience again.

my marriage seems so off these days, we feel very distant and "lost"... My husband doesnt know how to communicate at all, even when i try to talk to him about simple things he sees it as a fight and gets angry.

In my past I was always quick to anger. Through much time spent in self reflection I have came to realize that I outwardly expressed anger onto those with whom I love the most and those that cared and loved me.

we're starting over for the millionth time, hopefully we're able to keep with it this time. but we're starting because we're at a place where we are down to resentments and we're quick to anger. I hope it's not to late and he doesn't give up on me.

That is a great idea, use the Love Dare on yourself!

Well, I didnt realize that this App was for married couples, I no longer have a husband.He divorced and left.So I am just making a goal to apply these verses in a general fashion and towards my kids...We will see how it goes.

I'm starting but i think i will.be doing it on my own. my husband always says maybe later..we have been married 34 years next month. i feel.so empty inside and angry. i hope tjis helps.

i started this journey because i have found myself sometimes selfish and unwilling to truly love. mostly because of my past. please pray that i find peace and that my husband can forgive me

I'm engaged. We've started a journey together to get closer to Christ. But sometimes it's hard because she fears I'm being unfaithful to her because of our rocky pasts. pray for us and for me that I can calm her fears and not react negatively to it

my wife gets angry easily at things. someone times, the things are worthless and not something to get anyone angry but she'll just get angry. so i chose to visit here for a guid

i am starting this because i found my faince talking to other women online.

I am starting this journey because I have been pushing my fiance away for the last 3 years with anger and resentment from the beginning of the relationship. .

My husband wants to talk to me He told me he decided that he thinks I need to move out and give him time to find him self. He told me that I am the reason he can not go on and he is at a point that he wants to take his life.

I've started after discovering my wife was having an affair, which she told me about shortly before our 10 year anniversary. I thought our marriage was strong. But she's been unhappy in our relationship while not being honest about it & wants out.

I have been engaged with my fiancee for 3 years now and we are getting married this year in April. it's been a long road for the both of us. If we were not patient with each other, we would probably not be together. love and marriage go together.

I just want to make sure, whatever becomes of our marriage, that I have done everything I can to try to make it work... I don't want our marriage to dissolve but I also can not give my husband a higher authority than my Lord!

my wifes only discussions with me revolves around money. we both have kids from failed marriages and a sin we share together. i am the soul support for our family unit. recently i have noticed some foul play and i love her and am not going to give up

I have just one question, if my fiance yells at me and tries to start a fight, what am I supposed to do? Just sit there and say nothing while he is screaming at me?

Married for 12 yrs w/4 children. There was abuse early in our marriage. I have changed over the last 5 yrs to be more loving towards him, but I don't feel loved by him anymore, I'm really hoping and praying this will help. ~Love suffers and endures.

So 2days before Christmas he told me that there is nothing left inside of him for me.But also promised there is no one else in his life.But he's speaking to someone between late night hours and early morning hours and it's killing me to know.

I am saving a relationship towards a family member. Using the dare for another purpose to see if it helps

I'm starting this today to try and save our marriage. I just want my wife to feel loved, happy, safe and respected.

I starting this to save my marriage

I'm starting this journey because I feel I have been a bad spouse. I want to build myself in this marriage. through out the day, responding wisely and not giving negative comments.

I have been a high functioning alcoholic for 20 years, sober now 6 months. i have caused many hurts, and am truly remorseful for my actions. I am trying this dare as a last resort. please have mercy Lord, please hear the cry of your people. 🙏🙏🙏

I asked my husband today if he woud read the book today. He asked me what would a book do for us it knows nothing about use or our problems. All I could say back is thats the point of the book. It cant judge us but it can teach us.

have gone through the love there three times throughout the 20 years of my marriage. it's time to do another tune-up.

I've gone through The Love Dare three times throughout our marriage. and it's time to do it again. this is not a one and done solution, it's an ongoing maintenance thing. and I'm happy to do it again.

I started to remain focused on our marriage. I want to be proactive, not reactive. We just got married 3 days ago. I want everything that will help me love her more, help her feel more loved or make me a better man

im starting this journey because my husband and i have been drifting apart. Hes such a good man but his mental health is starting to get to me. I feel so unappreciated and overlooked sometimes.when i try to talk to him. its like he dismisses me.

me and my girlfriend been together going on a year now and I love her so much but I keep screwing up by talking to other girls so now there is no trust at all I no it's my fault it's there a way I can fix it cause I don't wanna lose her

My husband came home drunk last month with underwear in his pocket, I kicked him out. Two weeks later I found out he's been having affairs, one 3 years old with someone I considered my friend. Its a month now since he has been gone.

Last night I thought to myself that i am done not being good enough for my husband and we got into a big fight. I'm starting this today as I really need to start fixing my marriage.

My husband came home drunk last month with underwear in his pocket, I kicked him out. Two weeks later I found out he has been having affairs, one 3 years old with someone I considered my friend. Its a month now since he has been gone.

just gonna jump right in here....I'm recovering needle addict and a father of 4!! I kicked the drugs and got my family back but it's not any where close to the same as before I started my addiction

I am starting this journey to hopefully find a way to get past the infidelity that took place, and find out way back to the closeness we once shared.

i am starting this because we have had alot of loss and hurt in our marriage, and i can feel it slipping into contentment.

I am starting this Dare in hopes of connecting with my husband in a way that will fulfill our marriage for both of us.

I'm starting this for the 2nd time. My husband says nothing he does is right, feels like a kid & he can't give me what I need. when I cry that acting like a victim doesn't work. My heart is broken & my depression keeps getting deeper.

I'm starting this dare knowing God will soften both of our hearts and bring us together again. we gave been together for 6 years and have a 1child. she has recently kicked me out to make room for her oldest son and now has flipped the script on me.

I opened my mouth again this morning. everything I say or do has been pointed out to be manipulative and gaslighting. he doesn't feel loved. I want to change. I pushed him away. I want him happy again. us happy again.

Ive been married for 21 years , we had our up and downs , but a month ago she told me she dont love me anymore and she want us to separate, her only complain is that I didnt paid enough attention to her and didnt said lots of I love you.

we have both spoken to other people and wanted other things. we both have cheated on eachother emotionally. I want to save our marriage.

Im starting this dare today to try to save my marriage, he just told me he wants to be with me but hes not happy. We've been together almost 15 years and married for 12 with 3 children.

my wife think everything is ok we have no issues, but its like u do everything for ur partner but its never good enough some days i feel like Caleb i can help a 1000 people they will appreciate and not my wife

my wife think everything is ok we have no issues, but its like u do everything for ur partner but its never good enough some days i feel like Caleb i can help a 1000 people they will appreciate and not my wife..

i bet it lights her up to get them. dont stop now.

her getting is enough for now. i get tem from my husband and it lights my life up yet i tell himm nothing. maybe you should let.her know how you feel.

I sent my wife thank you and letting her know that I was thinking about her no response.

I can't get my wife to love me again. I read love is not a feeling it is a choice and she just is not choosing me. I am a complete failure

have attempted this multiple times. we separated and now trying one last time. Please pray for Josh and Jamie.

I am back with my husband after being together 6 yrs, separated 6 yrs and now back. we agreed we wanted our old lives back together and we just both relapsed and got clean over being separated and he's got caught lying and getting high behind my back

I am right there with all of you. I have been working on this for a long time, but 100% all in for the last 14 weeks. I am part of a men's group studying (How...Man - Pursuing Chirst). I am still struggling. I need her (wife) to show me love back.

Time to put in the work. No more excuses. I may not know how to Love but God knows. lets follow his example until blood.

I have made a terrible mistake to my husband and really broke his heart, I want to fix my marriage with him but I truly feel like I don't deserve his love or forgiveness I really am struggling to forgive myself

my wife and I are on the brink of divorce, i have done many wrongs which i whole heartedly want to mend and let her fall in love with me again.

I'm not in a relationship, but I have met a woman that I am considering getting into a relationship with. I'm in recovery and so is she,and we both agree we need to take things slow.

Wife says she loves me but she is not in love with me. She says she wants to be but she can't force to change her feelings any thoughts? I been working hard on trying to salvage marriage but she seem checked out.... 😭😭

27 years together, 2 now adult children. lots of betrayal, cheating, addiction issues from him. hes 11 months sober and I'm hoping this is a step to work on us a couple

27 years together, 2 now adult children. lots of betrayal, cheating, addiction issues from him. hes 11 months sober and I'm hoping this is a step to work in us a couple

married 8 years.. Prior to marriage i violated her trust w/ a woman, with her mouth that she has, but in every argument she brings it up that i am a cheater. her resolve during each disagreement is, LEAVE!

Married 13yrs 3 kids together. Her every actions says she doesnt want me in her life. No matter what I do it is never enough. Constanly belittles me and goes out of her way to say/do things to make me look like a POS.

I am hoping this will make me fall back in love with my husband. I love him but don't feel in love.

patient in everything❤💯

Married 12 years, together for almost 15. 2 little children. Told husband Im willing to put forth a 100% give-it-all-youve-got try to save our marriage & invited him to come alongside me. If our marriage doesnt change, Im prepared to divorce

My wife an I have been married for almost 10 years about a week ago she asked for divorce. I'm hoping this book helps. I love her and been changing my ways. Pray for us.

I love Cora Allen

husand said he didnt know if he wanted to be married anymore. i have tried this dare and failed many times. i am hoping this time it will work and the lord will restore our marriage.

I've done this dare multiple times with success but it seems like I've forgotten to continue trying. I never want to lose him, so I am doing this dare again.

my wife deserves a real man , i have done you wrong now im making everything right sorry for ever letting you down and breaking your heart , this is me and im becoming that man again , thanks to you and God

Starting over today. We've been fighting and arguing so much the last few weeks, and I have failed this dare numerous times. Im really going to try over, and get out of my old ways.

I'm praying that after almost 20 years with my husband I am enough for him and I pray that he sees that as well.

I'm repeating day 1 the attacks from Satan won because I allowed him to, I did not keep the armor of Christ on as a fool I thought I had it under control and I didn't please pray for me my wife and I have a newborn

I'm repeating day 1 the attacks from Satan won because I allowed him to, I did not keep the armor of Christ on as a fool I thought I had it under control and I didn't please pray for me my wife and I have a newborn and I can't lose my family

Does anyone have any advice on how to best deal with a spouse who constantly complains about everything in their life and everything in other people's lives too?

I need help in communicating with my partner. We are drifting apart because of lack of communication. This hurts as I am being blamed alone.

I pray that my faith in God to restore my marriage and family be answered it's my first day.

I'm seeking the Lord's rescue and guidance to intervene in our marriage .

I will pray with you. If there is anything specific you'd like me to pray for, please post it.

I am starting this journey again for the millionth time. He does not talk to me and when he does it is always something nasty. I do not know what to do anymore. He wants to leave. please pray with me

I am restarting this journey. Pray that I could finish this challenge, and I learn a lot from this and from others' experiences.

My husband of 20 yrs is being unfaithful. He says he doesnt love me and wants a divorce. we have 3 kids together. I dont know how to be on my own. I hope this will help us.

it really sucks having to start over again my wife and I have been married for 6 years I love that woman I struggle with addiction and being attracted to her all we do is fight prayers it can still work

Starting day 1 today

today is my first day doing this app. my husband and i have been together 9yrs married 3 and we have a 11 yr old and a 4yr old

10/05/2022 This is my first day starting this my husband and I have been together 7 years and married 2 years and we have constantly been fighting im hoping i can complete this and build a better relationship with him

I used to have the Love Dare book, and I tried this challenge numerous times, but never made it past Day 5. I am really going to try to complete it this time, even though we currently live in different countries.

10/04/2022 Today is the first day of trying to do The Love Dare. To be honest, I am nervous and scared at the same time. I am hoping that this will bring my husband and I closer together as well as help us find each other again. -AL

Ive been married 34 years. My God brought me to it, My God will bring me through it. Day 1. Epic fail on my part. ill start over again tomorrow, with Day 1.

Lately I have lost my temper for no reason. I feel that at times I try to push him away because I am insecure and don't deserve a good husband. Our jobs are increadibly stressful and the fact I'm working 12 days straight is eroding our marriage.

10/3 - Today was easier than expected. I woke up annoyed realizing that my husband didn't come to bed but instead played video games all night. I remained nice and positive. We were a little playful today laughing tonight. - GCD

10/03 - Started rough. Woke up to find my husband didn't come to bed. He stayed up all night playing videogames. I was annoyed but said nothing negative to him. We were a little playful on my breaks today. - GayDad

day 1 I originally thought he needed to see this I have not told him and this is my day 1. I ask for a lot of patients .He is more than patient with me.I am going to work on being patient with him .

day 1 I originally thought he needed to see this I have not told him and this is my day 1 I ask for a lot of patients He is more than patient with me.I am going to work on being patient with him

Day 1 gonna try this again. made it to week 3 last time. things started going good and I stopped. this time even when things are good I'm going to keep going.

Good day I'm starting today. I was just wondering do you guys do it together or just one of you?

i am trying this for probably the third time with my boyfriend. He always says that i start arguing with him out of the blue and he doesnt do anything. i have been with him 13 years off and on and sometimes dont feel like we are connected

I didn't think of this until today but started the Dare on Monday. He was supposed to meet with our counselor and cancelled. It caused a cancellation fee but I didn't say anything nor confront him.

My husband is an alcoholic, we are struggling because because he wastes money on alcohol. I am always shouting at him and it hurts my kids. I believe God will use this book to deliver us because right now I don't know where we stand.

First day he went there he send me a voice note and there was sexual sounds at the back.He said she just responded to what he said.my thing is if he is talking to me what does she have to do with our conversation.he doesn't care what I think

Im trying to learn patience in love. I always want to fix things right away after I destroy my relationship the wife is fed up. I love her dearly. It is not looking promising but imma try

my husband told me last night he is not in love w/me & needed time to think. I will do these 40 days or until he gives me an answer. I'm praying I can repair the damage I've caused.

My first day so far, my wife told me she doesn't love me anymore and doesn't want to be a family with me anymore. This will be my last attempt to save my relationship and my children's home. Please pray for us

I dealt with undiagnosed anxiety for decades. My wife helped me come to that realization. Now I will make the rest of my days making up to others and especially to her. I've taken the last 18 months becoming comfortable in this skin. .

I cheated and hurt my wife with a woman I had no business being with because I had a demon in me I suffer from PTSD from Iraq and Afghanistan I treated her like I was still army that was 10 years ago I have lied and hurt her and I wanna fix

my husband abandoned me and my daughter in June. He hasn't really tried to come back. He said there's just so much but he never told me what was wrong. He lost so many loved ones with covid and just pushed me away too after I miscarried.

I'm just starting today. My husband has been cheating thru our whole relationship and marriage. I'm hopeful that God touches us and fixes our marriage.

wow i did it, day one was complete brought my wife lunch at work. i love my wife. praying for better communication and deaper love. we dont even sleep together anymore all we do is fight over finances sigh

Well LoveDareFam.. This might be my 8th time starting over, but I did Make it to the 5th day. I'll get it. GN. My Fiance said he have to stop being so mean to me, because I don't deserve it. That only made me want to love him more 🙂 Day 1 😁RedDove

I'm trying this to save my marriage and my family I wasn't the best to my wife and I want her back when I was ready to give up on fighting for my marriage

we started doing this as a family project...I believe Fireproof is about love not just romantic love and if we can carry this out to our children as well as our significant other then it's an amazing journey

loving another human can be difficult, just know that God knows where you are meant to be and will lead you to peace and glory

Had to start over. I lost it when he continue to repeat how I was a failure to my children and i took a week to calm down. Ok. Day 1. 'Red Dove'

i have started this several times I even bought the book twice but i never make it past day 3 I do hope to complete it this time.

my first day doing this

my first days with this, hoping it helps my marriage. we've been married 31 years, I'm going through menopause and seem to take my frustration out on my husband. that needs to stop.

my first day doing this. I'm looking forward to the other 39 days. i have to do this. my wife means the world to me.

It was my first day applying the love dare app.

We've been married for 3 months now and we hope this love dare will continue to to strengthen our marriage even in days ahead.

Day 1 Hoping and praying that our Heavenly FATHER can instill within my fiance his Love and he's willing to give me God's love..

Day 1 Hoping and praying that our Heavenly FATHER instill within my fiance his Love and he's willing to give me that God's love..

i love my with all my heart. i have done the love dare. but i seem ti still push her away.

hiw can this work if they block you from everything

so i love the base off this i never fully went threw with this not married but my ex/ gf were talking still wanna try this if not maybe u can better my self

My 1st day! I know we're in our sin and this may not work. I do love him and I need the love of God to flow through my fiancé. So I pray this work, but most of all I pray your will be done my Lord. please pray for us.

i love him so much, when he withholds love and affection, treats me like a roommate, and not a partner, that hurts more than i can describe. how do you tell someone they are hurting you?

I am trying this love dare away from my boyfriend. We are not talking right now. i worte him a letter asking him to do the love dare with me. he said that he has done everything but there is no spark there anymore. but there are feeling.

My husband has walked away from God. We need a miracle.

it also great to avoid negative thoughts about your spouse

Day one completed and it's been very hard. My boyfriend is withholding affection and only speaks to me when needed. I dont know what to do because the things he does makes me hurt and want to cry but he doesnt care.

I am on day one, what if the other person is not responsive that means there is no chance to say anything negative

day one dor me is done, amazing!never felt peace for a long time

Praying for all of you who feel the same fear, sadness and pain I do. The last two years have taken us from "next level happy" to barely hanging on. We can heal ourselves and our marriages. 💪💜

this is my first time doing the love dare. i am mainly doing it for myself because my sons dad doesnt want a relationship with me nor does it seem like he likes me anymore. i am trying to find my peace with it and move on

I just downloaded the app.. we have been married for 28 years. the last 4 years have been rough so I'm hoping this will help bring us back close like we used to be.

we had a big argument last night, so my texts went ignored today. I expect that. I'm still going through with this.

Is there any sucessful stories where the woman has done the love dare on the man?

this is my first time trying the love dare. i need prayers for God to help me. i am on a difficult journey with my sons father.

3rd time I've tried the Love Dare. I don't know if it will help, but I'm going to complete it this time.

been married 20+ years when does the easy part come? marriage feels more like a domestic partnership- keep the day to day running. clean, cook, take care of kids, work, repeat. tried talking, doesn't seem to care. just tired.

been married 20+ years just tired of trying. when does the easy part come? marriage feels more like a domestic partnership- keep the day to day running. clean, cook, take care of kids, work, repeat. tried talking, doesn't seem to care.

been married over 20 years just tired tired of trying. when does the easy part come? marriage feels more like a domestic partnership- keep the day to day running. clean, cook, take care of kids, work, repeat. tried talking, doesn't seem to care.

I can't even imagine how horrible and scared you must be feeling right now. Although it is scary, It might be a good Idea to give him a little bit of space to reflect on the past 28 years.

How do I put Trust back in myself towards my Husband

My girlfriend left me after a year of dealing with my anger problems, I believe God brought her into my life and Satan has taken her away from me. please pray that God will restore my relationship by destroying the unhealthy anger in my life

My husband and I have been married 28 years this past April. I have done something so utterly stupid that I have broken his trust. He says he needs to clear his head and have some space. I am so afraid of losing him.

day one went amazing!!! on 2 day 2 wish me luck

Today is day 1 for me. My marriage is struggling right now because I lied to my wife about attending a work event and instead hung out with a friend. I am hoping this book will help me to restore my relationship with God and my marriage.

It's Jose montanez yes we need to have patient and trust in God

It's Jose montanez again me and my partner is doing this together please keep us in your prayers that we stay strong in our Lord everyday

my name is Jose montanez I would like to tell you my story I hurt the women of my life and her family I need you blessing and prayers to keep move forward with God and fix the damage I did to her and her family thank you God bless

My wife is scared of me. I have anger management issues, and it's gone on too long. She's giving me one more chance, but she's already told me she'd rather leave then try to wait on me to get better. I'm trying everything including this, pray for me

Today is day 1 and i already had to hold my tongue. life is hard right now i dont want a broken home but i feel like giving up on everything. hopefully this saves my marriage because i need it 😭😭

today is day 1. already had to hold my tongue:( but it will get better i hope pray for me don't want a broken home . did this once with him and it worked so now doing it again without him . i need prayers 🙏

today is my beginning. If youbare reading this please pray for my wife and I. I love her dewtly but am lackingbin some areas. she says I dont stand up for her.

I'm finding it hard to distinguish between negative thoughts or if it is necessary to speak up. I'm deeply unhappy with how he allows me to do everything alone.

Here we go starting this journey today. gonna be a long difficult road but theres light at the end of the tunnel and i call her my wife.

This was second attempt at accomplishing Day 1. I won't move on from it until I do. I'm trying to be a better father and husband, and I struggle with my brain damage. I know I can do it. I want to and I will succeed. Never stop trying.

today i start this journey. i had an emotional affair and realized i ruined my life. i must change myself if i ever hope to have a life with my wife in it. i dont want a life without my wife and son.

My husband & I are both doing the dare would u all Use the same account on here or separate? Our counselor had us watch the movie & thinks we can benefit from it don't know if we should do with accounts??

I am beginning my journey with this. i want to make it work for myself, to renew my bond with Christ and become a more patient and loving person

At first i started to slam the front door but then i just stomped off

i blew it today. with arguing back. i should of just walked away.

my husband and i have been separated for 19 months he just recently asked for a divorce there is someone else in the picture please pray for my husband's heart to be softened and gods unconditional love touch his heart

I keep on trying to win my husbands love,but feel that i am getting no were. So i hope this love dare helps me does anybody have advise for me

https://bible.org/seriespage/lesson-5-what-love-looks-1-corinthians-134-7

I failed to keep my negative comments to myself today I love my wife to no end is there anyone that can help me keep my comments to myself or show me how not to be an idiot

Difficult day today. Got up to day 18. couldn't do 16-18 because we are not together.. everything has been on the phone. This makes the 3rd time thru that I've done the love Dare with/on her. I'm not giving up. Plz pray for my wifes heart.

My relationship is complicated. but I pray this book will help me open up in ways to God and to be able to show my love in healthy manners and broaden our love for each other.

i wish i know how to get my newly saved husband more interested in reading the Bible and praying. Any advice? TIA

Day 1. I feel I am patient for most things but as it stated about the car keys thing, oh boy would I have given what seemed to be a lecture. I see the vision of being the support of how to solve the problem.

marry 25 years but things not same we do our own lives and really don't tell each other where we going.

i feel like a caged bird, who has had its wings clipped. ive been basically numb all day. he told me last nite he didnt care if i live or die. ive done a bad job of disrespecting him for last year - and publicly!

I was emotionally unfaithful 2 years ago, I recently told my husband about this. I was in a dark place 2 years ago, we lived in seperate rooms and there was no effection. I love my family. How do i fix thie?

I SAY Proverbs 1:33 . MY HUSBAND SAYS LOVE PATIENT. IT HAS TO BE

I SAY Morning and Evening Daily Devotional by C.H. Spurgeon July, 6 (Morning) Devotion “Whoso hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil.” Proverbs 1:33 . MY HUSBAND SAYS LOVE PATIENT. IT HAS TO BE

pray that my love for Jesus grows stronger every day

My wife and I are having our issues and they've gotten so bad she's removed her ring till she believes that were good. please pray for us. we've only been married for 10 months.

I was cheated on in my relationship and wanted to try this 40 day devotional before calling it quits... but this first one has been tough for me, I guess because of the hurt that infedelity brings with it. alot of times I had to bite my tongue.

day 1: and it was the hardest, feel so alone and isolated and like I'm going crazy. my husband's ways are rubbing off on our kids and it's making marriage and child raising equally hard. praying my husband changes.

I believe from life experience that patient and kindness are the two pillars upon which love is built

I am not married as of yet. the man I am with is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. I am doing this challenge not only for myself I am doing it for our future marriage. change starts with me.

Im starting the love dare because my marriage is slowly dying. Im willing to try anything to fix it.

❤️

I'm done

I have been married for 21 years. I have done some awful things to him and he still stand by my side I want to give him the love he deserves

i was with a guy for 35 years of my life off and on and he passed away April 8th 2020 trying to find myself

i was divorce me on Fathers Day. She has had hard feeling, love, for another guy, whom is married. My mind, its over she has moved on and doesn't want to be with me. My heart, challenge accepted.Please Pray for me

Well slipped a little this morning and got a little snappy.... I did apologize immediately. Maybe I should just not say anything until after my second cup of coffee

I know I am not perfect and I have been hurt and scarred from my past, but my wife had hurts and scarrs that outnumber mine and I'm afraid that her fears are consuming her.

Day 1. I'm always trying, this is my last resort. I love him so much but is it worth fighting if ur not loved back. he says he loves me but his actions show different. hope by trying this challenge will save my marriage😔

Your life sounds a lot like mine.

1st day...My wife told me yesterday that she wanted a divorce or dissolution.....She also said that she feels as we are living as roommates and Best friends instead of Married couple...Devastating

Day 1. I don't know what out come I'm looking for. 30 years and I'm tired of having to work at this so hard. Most days now I'm thinking of ways to leave. He's been checked out for a long time and shows no interest in checking back in.

Day 1, I don't know what outcome I'm looking for. 30 years and I'm tired. I've prayed, I've tried. Honestly, I think this is my last attempt. Communication has broken completely. Trust is gone. He's angry and I'm bitter. Peace would be nice.

My wife feels that I really don't know her. I am hoping this dare will help me really know my wife and treat her the way she would want to be treated. Pray for us.

praying 🙏

We just went through a round of counseling. It was not unhelpful. I'm hoping to use this to build on it. together 16 years, married 14, 3 combat deploymemts. I owe this to her after all of that.

We just went through a round of counseling. It was not unhelpful. I'm hoping to use this to build on it. together 16 years, married 14, 3 combat feploymemts. I owe this to her after all of that.

Wish I could stop waking up so I could stop making him so unhappy.

I went through his FB this morning and he's liking other younger females posts and pics and all he can say about my posts is how I'm such a ho looking for attention, he says he loves me but I truly believe he is interested in someone else.

He requested me on Facebook and TikTok only to block me after our first argument now he simply goes through my phone to see what I have posted and what new ppl have been added to friends list,

We are both 51yrs old. We first met in Jr high when we were 12yrs old and just reconnected Sept 21,2021.

my fiance he just told me he has some stuff to think bout if he wants to still be with me he might do this too the love dare. i dont want to loose him im hoping this saves my relationship

this is day one for me. im hoping will help my relationship. i dont want to loose my fiance. he works 3rd shift and barely spends time with me so it left me feeling lonely so i started talking to someone else. and i shouldnt done that.

Very good first day with my wife ... We both was able to complete our task ..

love is patient ill have to wait and be waiting wile i het help dor my mental health and for my addication ill wait for her love and patient to come to me

i tried to be the person i need to be to show my wife, but things went pmwell durning the day but as for now it had abit of failures but i stand to what must be done to continue.

i tried to be the person i need to be to show my wife, but things went pmwell durning the day but as for now it had abit of failures but i stand to what must be done to continue

I have started this journey today. My fiance is very angry and he dont want me anymore because i talked to him desrespectful. But i wil try and be patience until i reached my destination.

My husband and I are about to start the Love Dare! I'm really hoping it will help! my question is am I the problem if I scored 300 and y husband scored 708? He hasn't seen the results yet. I just want to know what I'm getting into!

There is a section in the book his needs her needs about spending 15 hours of undivided attention with your spouse per week. There is an inventory questionnaire that goes along with it to identify the interests you have in common.

We've been married 4 years this coming August. We've had ups and downs along the way. She os now saying she is done. I was completely blindsided by this. I pray that doing this book will help repair our marriage. Please pray for us.

Today is my first day. My wife has completely given up on me and the marriage after 31 years for another man. We are still living together but in separate rooms. This challenge will hopefully support God's will and replace it.

Today I need prayers as I'm Starting the love dare today , my wife and I are becoming more and more toxic as the days continue.

I need prayer please. I have decided to start this dare today. My marriage is falling apart and my husband has moved to another room and wants a divorce. I need a lot of prayer please

my wife says that I don't pay enough attention to her she says I'm bored with her and I'm not bored with her I love her with all my heart but I can agree that I probably don't pay enough attention to her

I have a question.... If my relationship is really damaged and i dont get the time of day to see my loved one. How am i able to perform the tasks that the book tells me to do? We don't live together and im not able to see her much right now..

today I decided to start this Love dare challenge to have a better relationship with my husband, and to strengthen our relationship with each other and with God as the center of our relationship.

My dad and his wife and my fiance and I started this challenge yesterday. I practiced being patient by listening better instead of interrupting and getting side tracked during our conversations.

Day 1

i need prayers! ive barely gotten started and its already been horrible. i just need a cance ro show him how much i love him. please pray

PRAY FOR US PLEASE

My husband told me he doesnt know whats going in with him. says he loves me but he doesnt know if he wants ro be with me. weve been through a lot im gonna let God be in charge of this

starting this today , my wife and i have had some really rough times . been married for 3 years now . we never seen covid coming nor did any of us but we made it through with alot of bruises and hurt feelings .

Working to save 22 years of marriage. Yester I started leaving a post it note on her mirror, with one or two things about her that make me love her. Today I started the Love Dare on the advice of my mother-in-law. Here's to hope....

I have moved intonthe spare bedroom at her request. she says she does not love me anymore and does not want to be with me. i have vowed to show her that i am more than talk and that i can change and fulfill those promises.

hubby n I been split since Jan. we live in different states but have opened communication between us. even if it doesn't, he's my best friend. we've agreed to start small n slow

for all you out there going through relationship problems im praying for your relationship 🙏, please pray for mine in return and let us trust Gods process

My marriage is very close to the end. I'm fighting like hell to save it. He has been too. We've worked very hard. This is the second time he asked for a divorce. Pray for my marriage.

My husband dropped the bombshell on me this weekend.He told me he loves me but doesn't like me much right now. I am turning it over to God and putting it in his hands as I know through him all things are possible.

I'm doing this today. I'm trusting God to help me in my marriage.

i dont know where to start.. my husband is not talking to me. we are ldr. last time we talked he is giving up. i dont know what to do. ☹️

Completed Day 1. Whole heartedly doing this, for me and for him. #GodsGotThis

I am starting again, whole heartedly this time. Day 1 complete. #GodsGotThis

i started today and i pray that i can complete all of these challenges and that it helps rebuild my relationship. I think i have done fairly well with todays challenge.

started this several times and never put my best foot forward and took it seriously but now as a police officer wife and he forgets im not a criminal or inmate's im pray God will be done and looking forward to this full journey.

yall I really need prayer and help... im really trying to save a relationship that I destroyed... and really want God to give me a chance to make it right

i did the first challenge and he just continued to act like i was around. i pray it gets easier.

Today was a good day with my sweetheart 💞

1st day of doing this challenge. I'm doing by myself, because my husband sees no wrong in what he does. This is my last challenge to figure this all out and I pray to God my husband will join me.

none of disapprove thought came in mind today. I am praying and reading this book seriously.

Started today and very excited !

I am reading day 1. Tomorrow I will put in to practice the lessons I learn with this walk in hopes I can rebuild my marriage into a stronger, better marriage. yall pray for me, Ill pray for all of us on this walk.

I cannot under any circumstances tell my SO that I am doing this challenge.

My SO has left me so many times. Today he said that he doesn't love me anymore. I don't blame him, I have been completely falling apart in the most horrid way. I took it all out on him.

I have 2 week's to make some positive changes in my marriage before husband gives up... hoping i can start making a change in myself before hes done...

I feel like giving up. There is a problem. But I still need to give this a try and complete this dare.

I am battling with depression with a baby on the way. My husband is not with us and is not willing to save our marriage, he is a backslider believer of God.I figure i will do this challenge and send to him daily the verse of the day.

I am battling with depression with a baby on the way. My husband is not with us and is not willing to save our marriage, he is a backslider believer of God. I do not know what to do

Today is day 1 in my journey to a new me for my love. I was verbally abusive and emotionally abusive to her. I regret all my actions and it has been a week now that she left. She hasn't spoken to me or seen me.

Is my first day doing this, I know it'd a long journey, I do identify myself a lot with the movie and I ordered the hard copy to my husband as a gift. Hopefully this help us out, keep us in your prayers!

My partner doesn't believe in God but I do. We both agreed to give it one more go because theres still love and we have a daughter. this journey is mine though. prayers

Is it better for me to do the live dare alone or suggest we do it together?

I have tried to do this many times. I struggle letting my words turn to action. This is our 2nd marriage for both of us. I struggle with and addictive personality. Please pray with me for strength and wisedom to preserve and make the needed changes.

so my wife and i had been apart since January things got bad um i was a completely different person than i am now. we have been married since 18 and im 29 now. she ignores me. i love her so much amd miss her. and she acts like i dont exist.

I am a very strict person when it comes to myself and I have very high standards Unfortunitly I've expectected the same standards for my wife and I think I've suffocated her love. I hope that God will be able to make my heart soft towards my wife

Today my wife and I are on day one together. I struggle with addiction.. We both struggle with promiscuous behaviors.

My boyfriend demands I should be patient with him but he shames me when I don't do something the way he wants. I really struggle with this. please advise me

Day 1, shared with my partner and hope this helps us

We have been married for 25 years, it's has been rough and we have decided to get serious about counseling, we did one session and it's was wonderful. I believe God is at work and will restore.

We at a point where both don't want a divorce but scared to try again and all just happens all over again.I believe God can bring full restoration and starting with the love dare today to give it a try while praying and trusting God for the rest.

I know

what's interesting is that he reciprocates the silence. so I'm sure it's only resentment or anger and a growth of pride that goes on when neither of us says something.

She is overly helpful to the point of patronizing. I enjoy being taken care of, but i also want to do/make things my way at times. and that needs to be okay.

i moved to his hometown for the 3rd time, Everytime i come here i fall into depression.we lived in my hometown too&it was the other way around. he never wanted to be part of family/friend events, now he wants me to go with him&i don't want to...

well i gave this my best shot..seems doomed to fail..divorce signing in a few days.

so sorry to hear that

well i gave this my best shot..seems doomed to fail..divorce signing in a few days

Day 2, she has plans to go out, so i got up and irnoned and got her outfit ready for the evening. She thanked me. I really hope this challenges brings us closer.

My marriage is on the rocks and has been for some time now. My husband said he doesn't love me and wants to leave. im a stay at home mom.We have 4 kids together. Im so broken and a whole bunch of a mix of emotions. plus there is another woman :(

I come into this with a broken heart. I asked my husband if he is seeing someone else and he said yes but then later he told me that he just said it to get me to leave him alone.

My wife has been hurt by my family and by me not making her a priority and not stnading up for her. she has asked for a divorce but given me a short extension to show her how important she is...im going to use every second.

I need to make a change for my family. less perfectionism, less anger, more love and peace, rebuilding trust. I'm scared, blending a family is hard.

our relationship was in ruins for 7 months, in that time she cheated, we have 6yo twins. i throw it in her face when we fight. i want this to work and she says she does too

Me and my fiance have been on and off for 5 years we have to amazing children together. I broke his trust in me in the past as he has broke me to now we have the problem of regain each others full trust back

i have an addiction that in the past 4 years has taken over. ive neglected my marriage and my wife. I drove her into the arms of another man. The Love Dare saved my marriage in the beginning, praying it can agian now 🙏

my marriage has been in the toilet for months now. my wife slept with someone else which resulted in her getting pregnant and my supervisor at work told me if i wanted to fix it to try the love dare

I've been married for 26 years. my husband doesn't want to be married anymore because he has met me a new woman three years ago and they have become friends. we're trying love dare to see if things can be worked out before getting divorced.

I've been married for 26 years. my husband doesn't want to be married anymore because he has met me a new woman three years ago and they have become friends.

Trying to rebuild my marriage. Found out my wife had an affair 26 years ago and my 26 yr old son is not mine. Total betrayal! Willing to try to start over. Needed guideline to building better marriage this time.

My husband and I have only been married a year and already have been through so much in a short time. I want to become closer to him through the Lord.

I am taking this dare to fix the marriage that i have been messing up. My husband has been gracious to give a second chance and i dont want to blow it.

Im going to try this. Cos this is my last option. my wife already gave up on me and our marriage. Hopefully this wil do the trick to change me into the way i should be and to the way i must be with my wife....

My wife and I are rebuilding our relationship after I almost destroyed it during my active addiction. We found this app right after we decided we needed spiritual guidance. We are both afraid of what might happen. I pray that God will guide us

i have done this before but not the online version. gonna try again just pray it gets easier

I am doing this challenge for myself to see where I have changed. or if there is indeed a huge issue in my marriage. I can't throw 13 years away.

I am doing this challenge for myself to see where I have changed. or if there is indeed a huge issue in my marriage. I can't throw 13 years away

My biggest frustration is that when we are busy communicating, the conversation would stop midway due to msgs receives on cellphone...and as much as what my partners work revolves around her phone it gets to me

Day 1: It's just me doing this...a last resort for a marriage on its last thread.

my husband noticed this little change and said "whatever you're doing, keep doing it" haha

i want to be the partner he deserves

This has been an incredible experience. Most of the dares so far we already do daily for each other. But it has strengthen my relationship with God. I also am reading the 5 love languages which is also based around God.

my lady think this is a stupid idea

I'm waiting for the book to arrive from Amazon before I start, and honestly I'm in a bad place. My marriage is on thin ice, and my wife told me that she's not a Christian like she had led me to believe over the past 5-1/2 years. My heart is crushed.

so yesterday was my second day. i messed up. do we start over or just keep going? im letting yall know thst we are in this together. with God anything is possible anf can be fixed.

I started today, but failed badly ..Problem is, its not from his side, I am the problem, I have a short temper, and are struggling to control my temper, I know I am pushing him away

This my third time doing the Love Dares. The 1st and 2nd time ended in a disaster. I gave my wife the link but she never clicked on it. This time around I will doing the challenge for forty weeks instead of forty days.

started this today. my husband and I have been married for 25 years. our marriage has been rocky. It seems like we are always struggling. We have stopped communicating and our intimate life has changed as well. Our love has grown cold.

I have started this today. I have been contemplating divorcing my husband. After prayer. I felt god lead me to do this Dare. I have started it and stopped several times. I know with God's help I will complete this dare.

I'm starting tomorrow. Been married for 13 years and the marriage is Rocky. My husband has mentioned that he would like to move out and then we can try and fix things. I'm hoping that by starting the dare he would decide to rather stay.

been at it for a year unconditionally loving my spouse feel used abused and totally hated

test

I've started and stopped this a few times, yet hav given up in refusing to suffer at times for my beloved. There has been such rejection of me on her part, and we have done 7 months of marriage coaching to no avail.

secretly doing the love dare without letring the bubby in on it that I am. Gonna be the best i can be for God, our marriage, our home,and the Kingdom !

my husband suggested this, but has already moved out and in with another woman- how can this work if he is absent

my wife asked me to do this 5 years ago and i refused. i pray its not too late

Day 1 down. I'm ready to look within my self and become a better friend and wife.

been married almost 20 years. I hope I can help fix us. I would like communication from him and compassion. I hope tomorrow is better.

day one and already screwing up

Been married 9 yrs. He spent 2.5 yrs in prison & he's been out for a year. I've stood by him through it all, faithful, but broken and hurt. Im terrified that we will never recover all the way. We are just so lost I just pray we can find the US again.

Only made it to day 13 before giving up. I felt encouraged to start again. This morning, I'm questioning why. I love my wife, I made selfish choices that hurt her. Were separated, I may have broken our marriage beyond repair. I dont want to give up!

l love my boyfriend dearly and we've been together for about four years. However, we've hit a few rough spots this fall. Hoping to strengthen our relationship by completing all of the Love Dare challenges.

Our 9 marriage has often had major challenges but this time she wants a divorce. I've lost her heart. I've been praying hard and often pleading with God to soften her heart and to change me. Really need a breakthrough.

Day 1 ... wish me luck 😬

okay....its 230 I'm going to give this a try

My husband of 20 years married and 22 years together, told me he's done with our marriage. I don't want our marriage to end.

Has anyone tried to do the love dare with a drig addict?

Has anyone tried to do the love dare with a meth addict?

Has anyone tried to do this dare with a meth addict?

i have been married almost a year and no matter what I do it seems like it ain't good enough i so work a lot i have 2 jobs because we are behind on bills. but she refuses to to have time for us

I messed up in this relationship because I allowed people to poisen my mind and my heart towards my fiance and I did thing I am not proud of things that I would of never done . i want him and him alone

Thank you

My wife is wanting a divorce. She says she plans on going through with it no matter what. Im scared and struggling right now. I dont want it to end, but its hard to see how its not going to right now. I dont want to lose my wife or my family.

My husband cheated on me by having an emotional affair with another woman. He built a relationship over 3 months chatting to her everyday and eventually fell in love with her. How do I trust him again? Where do I go from here?

what do i do if she wont see me or talk to me she block me and her family ask me to move on. how will she see the change in me

this is my last hope to save us.my husband says he's done.we both have lots to work on but i don't want to give up on us and it hurts that he does. i pray i get past my trust issues and depression and take accountability for my actions when needed

wow i hurt the woman God brought into my life, i belive with all my heart, he brought us together, but hurt her. now she has block menout of her life God put it on my heart the love dare anyways. but what do i do if she wont see me or talk to me

My husband doesn't look at me the same way anymore. I feel emotionally bruised and it's hard to feel like his wife and not JUST his assistant at work. Any advice will be appreciated... all I know is I don't want to give up.

My husband doesn't look at me the same way anymore. He's more distant and short-tampered with me. I don't want to give up. I recognize I haven't been giving my 100%, but it's difficult when all I feel is emotionally exhuated and bruised.

I've been praying and waiting. He made it clear to me that today is the day. My wife has divorced me already, I have not divorced her. Praying for clarity. I know God will provide. Paul (& Stephanie) Adams.

It's been 3 days since my husband told me he wants to split up. He doesn't want to even try anymore. I feel so hopeless but I'm trying to do everything I can to keep my marriage.

After 17 years my wife says, she doesn't love me anymore and that she's moving out. I'm trying, but this is really hard.

My husband and I have been together for 18 year, married for 17 of them. For months I have tried to work with my husband on our marriage. This weekend we were arguing during which he referenced me as a "demon from hell".

spent half the day yesterday betraying wife/breaking marriage covenant. I don't want to live like this anymore

after 18 years my husband has told me he isn't in love with me and wants out . I'm heart broken 💔💔

MY RESOLUTIONS: TO BE- UNIMPORTANT HUMBLE MODEST SUBMISSIVE NON COMPLAINING TOLERATE SLOW TO RESPOND ETC. GOD HELP me

MY RESOLUTIONS: TO BE- UNIMPORTANT HUMBLE MODEST KIND SUBMISSIVE NON COMPLAINING TOLERATE SLOW TO RESPOND ETC. GOD HELP me

cont MY RESOLUTIONS: TO BE- UNIMPORTANT HUMBLE MODEST KIND SUBMISSIVE NON COMPLAINING TOLERATE SLOW TO RESPOND ETC. GOD HELP ME.

(continuation) MY RESOLUTIONS: TO BE- UNIMPORTANT HUMBLE MODEST KIND SUBMISSIVE NON COMPLAINING TOLERATE SLOW TO RESPOND ETC. GOD HELP ME.

MY DAY1 My previous actions: RUDE SAUCY MEAN IMPATIENT COMPLAINING ETC

MY DAY1 My previous actions: RUDE SAUCY MEAN IMPATIENT COMPLAINING ETC. MY RESOLUTIONS: TO BE- UNIMPORTANT HUMBLE MODEST KIND SUBMISSIVE NON COMPLAINING TOLERATE SLOW TO RESPOND ETC. God help me

MY DAY1 My previous actions: RUDE SAUCY MEAN IMPATIENT COMPLAINING ETC. MY RESOLUTIONS: TO BE- UNIMPORTANT HUMBLE MODEST KIND SUBMISSIVE NON COMPLAINING TOLERATE SLOW TO RESPOND ETC.

been married for almost 9 years....like all couples struggles...I am trying to connect to God again as I know only he has the solution...my wife told me she no longer loves me....trying day 1 tomorrow

i didnt know what to say when he told me he was going a work functiin and she said she was with friends drinking. i wanted to ask if they were at the same place but held my tongue

don't know if this is the right thing to do by going through this LOVE DARE ,I am hoping God will hear me and help me.Thank you.

HE THINKS HE IS MORE SPIRITUAL THAN ME),And I hope the love dare challenge makes all the differences have been hoping for.

hummmm!! I am new here,I want to make my marriage work,I want God to help me in these journey because it's not going to be easy with the kind of person my husband his ,he thinks he knows everything.

okay Beginning day 1....we been on n off again for over a year. I admit I messed up I apologize daily n he will not forgive me nor will he take me back. he's mentioned wanting to see change in me improvement in my attitude.....I pray this helps.

I had the divorce papers in my hand. He refused to sign for months. Now that we are together and trying to work out our marriage .... he doesnt want me. I feel like there is someone else at work. So many negative thoughts.Day 1 for me.

We have been living together for 8 years,married for 7 months. my husband hates his job,therefore he eants to escape in TV games & I feel along and discarded, even though I should be grateful he choses to come home

Day one yesterday I had to hold my tongue. Even my thoughts drift towards negative things. I did the pile of dishes as well. Today I'll resolve to kick it up a bit.

tbh my wife and i have a great relationship. We rarely fight but i still try every day to find ways to be a better husband and i never want to stop showing her how much i love her.

My first day here,I have been separated for 7years,my husband moved on after 14yrs together,he was abusive physically and emotionally and didn't provide at all,I have since forgiven him and looking at God to provide a companion of His choice

My first day here,I have been separated for 7yeaes,my husband moved on after 14yrs together,he was abusive physically and emotionally and didn't provide at all,I have since forgiven him and looking at God to provide a companion of His choice

Day 1 for me. We have been married for 7 years. I am not in love with my husband but I do love him! I hoping to get that love back!

Today is Day 1 for me. My husband and I are not separated at this time, but I predict if things do not change it will get there. i have been stressed and mean all the time and i want to be a better wife.

It's day 1 for me. I have been married to my wife for 14 years and we have 3 kids. I neglected my wife very frequently due to passive-aggressive fighting style and now, she no longer loves me. I'm trying this for 40 days.

i am separated from my wife for almost a year but God still gave me a hart to try and win my wife's hart back i still did not recieved my divorce papers but she told me that's se is seeing someone else.....

I realize now by fighting with my wife with what makes me amgry pushes us apart. I need to work on my negativity and be building up my wife more. I cannot stop thinking about my wife and I need her in my life. i am probably a verbal abuser

I need to fight for our marriage.wrong work related friends, pornography, unfaithfulness, ego, pride, status, money.... there is so many things I must fight to get my husband to see me again and realise that I am still here with so much love for him.

I messed up in my past and now I am wanting Christ wholeheartedly. my husband is in the process of moving out and want to divorce. today is day one.

32 years of marriage.I think my husband has had an affair and some serious pornography issues.He has been hiding many things from me this past year.I love him and want to fulfill God's destiny in my life.Today is day one.

Day 1. My husband and I are together for 7 years now. We are both so busy. It feels like we're drifting apart and I'm trying my best to keep our marriage a priority but we barely speak to each other.

I started day 1 today. My husband and I are together for 7 years now. We are both so busy. It feels like we're drifting apart and I'm trying my best to keep our marriage a priority but we barely speak to each other.

I've decided to focus on myself and my marriage today. We have been separated for 2 years and and I finally found the courage within myself to have the "what are we" talk. It's painful to me that he still has doubt

Today is my first day of this. My husband and I already have a great relationship. We have had to work at it. One of the things we need to work on is not being overly critical and not being sarcastic with one another.

I fear how loud she gets will affect our boys impression of marriage looks like. Even when I explain she says I am trying to silence her. Now I say nothing and let her go on. She may self evaluate. I reserve facial expressions and listen.

This is Day 1 of my journey. I'm hoping to rekindle my love for my mate. Somewhere I have lost that love and I don't want to leave. It is time for us to make changes or we will be over. As the head I know all change starts with me.

I am going to try this...I've been married to my husband for six years I haven't always been the nicest or faithful to him. I have hurt him so much he doesn't want to stay but he doesn't want to leave. hoping this helps

I have 0 patience when its comes to everything and he stays so patient with me and does everything to help me calm down its amazing how just his touch can calm my anxiety

my patience was put to the test today. there were so many triggers to cause me anger. i told myself not to engage. i know this will always be a challenge for me to do but it feels amazing to know He is my strength.

he asked me to give up on us.

Today will challenge me since there have been alot of negative things said lately but I have to remember it is only day 1 of doing better to fix the problems and better my 6 year relationship.